Why would a guy jersey off while his girl is sleep?

So I woke up to my boyfriend jerking off and he tried to say he wasn't. We had sex only once since he's been around me the whole weekend
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  • Just jerking off, or to you sleeping? That's a thing/fetish. You see it in porn, some guys have a thing for doing it while women are sleeping (I don't get it, but fetishes often don't make sense unless you have them yourself lol). Or if he was just jerking off, I'm guessing the mood just hit him at that moment, and you were sleeping. We tend to want to "take care of it" right then and there when it happens lol, if we can. Maybe didn't want to wake you up for sex? I'm just guessing as I wasn't there to know how it happened exactly. And I don't know why he'd hide it? Did you get mad at him for it? And if so, what for?

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  • You wrote "sex only once since he's been around me the whole weekend".

    I think this is obvious isn't it? If it were me, I would had initiated 2 to 4 times. (My schedule is usually morning to burn off my morning wood, and likely after 3pm or before sleep.)

    in my opinion, he finds you sexy and wanted more sex. And by the way, it's perfectly normal for a horny guy to masturbate, especially when he's with his dream girl but not getting it.

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  • He's horny and gets off on masturbating next to you.

  • Maybe he thinks she wouldn’t be interested in doing anything at that moment and/or has been turned down for sex in similar situations.

  • maybe he doesn't like sex with you? or really he is gay? not sure but if it were me and I wanted sex I would start kissing you to wake you up and then have sex with you.

  • He was horny.

  • could be many issues... he was horny but didn't want to bother you, now he is embarrassed that you confronted him, (better, if you to pretended to be asleep) give it time or find another way to reassure him that it was "OK"

  • I jerked off to my wife many time while she was sleeping

  • Did you offer to help him?

  • Don't know why he would lie, but probably just jacking off because he was horny and didn't want to wake you up.