Why would a guy kiss a girl on the lips if he doesn't like her?

We were flirty friends he spontaneously kissed me on the lips and made it more than friends. Then he told me I am amazing and so hot but just wants to be my friend. Wow. That hurt. Why did he have to kiss me for?
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He's more than ten years older.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • That's a good question. He likes you, I don't know why he said he "just wants to be your friend". I think you should sit down and ask him that. Soon after we met my girlfriend told me she wasn't ready for a relationship. That was seven years ago. Yeah, her life was pretty messy back then but none of it was a deal-breaker.

    • We were talking a lot we made out then he invited me over with friends. He was taking care of me specially. But just pecked me on the lips. And then pulled the friend card. It hurts a lot

  • Maybe he is just scared of loosing you I have had that happen where I like a girl but I don't tell her cause I don't want to scare her away. Everyone makes mistakes maybe he regretted kissing you. Just live and learn and live in the present the past does nothing but teach lessons

    • Why scared of losing me

    • Like good friends that are girls who you also find sexually attractive if you make a move and they reject you its may or may not be awkward resulting in a loss of the friendship sometimes its hard to know for sure if going for it is worth the risk of loosing her for good.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Ego. Thrill of the chase. Some people just do it to inflate their ego and prove to themselves that they could get what they wanted out of another person. Others do it just because they get a high off of all the reactions to someone kissing them. A kiss doesn't necessarily always mean something

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  • He wants friends with benefits situation with u.
    Don't fall in.

    • So he still wants to hook up? I thought just friends now

    • Yeah he told u all those things and kissed u, and is not falling in the direction of love or commitment then he had all the intentions to hook up. Just hook up.

    • But why kiss me all romantic like a peck? And he's a lot older too

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  • a guy doesn't have to like agirl in order to kiss her on her lips basically :-)

  • I am confused - His mouth says one thing, his actions say another.

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