Why would a guy masturbate after sex?

[Anonymous]

Like, we have sex and I ask him if he wants another round and he says no, so I go to sleep. Then I wake up an hour later and he's masturbating to porn. He came during sex but I guess he's not satisfied by me? I do everything he asks me to during sex and everything so I don't know what's wrong.

[MrNameless]

This doesn't sound good at all... It sounds like he is addicted to porn. Kinda disrespectful to say no to round 2 and then jack off to porn after.

[Asker]

What could be wrong with my pussy? Other girls are able to satisfy their boyfriend's with their vaginas...

[Ben487]

b/c that's how long it takes sometimes for men to recharge and then want round 2.

[Asker]

Do you think he's not satisfied by me? I have given him a bj before too and then he said he was good and so I got in the shower and I was only in there for like 10 minutes and when I got put, he was masturbating to porn. He literally waited for me to get in the shower after I had literally just blew him.

[MrNameless]

Dude.. you didn't read her post. She asked for round 2, and he said no. She went to sleep and saw him masturbating to porn instead.

[rachel776]

i had a guy one time go to the bathroom after sex and when i went in he was jerking to a girl on one of my People magazines

[MementoMori777]

Porn addictions bro, don't take it personal smh

[Asker]

How do I know if it's actually a porn addiction or if he's just not satisfied tho? Lol

[MementoMori777]

He would've cheated on you no? Sounds like he just prefers the screen stuff and it seems like an addiction considering he has the real thing right next to him, you do know that pornography can effect the mind to the point they no longer get turned on from the normal and they only get aroused from the dirty and twisted pornography on the internet, so if he did lose interest, pornography is still the reason and he's most likely addicted to it 🙃

[Asker]

Well he still fucks me pretty much everyday and he always cums with me. Surely if he's lost interest, he wouldn't fuck me this much right?

[Asker]

He says he has masturbated to porn since he was a preteen, so it's not my fault right? But if I was good enough, wouldn't he have laid off the porn a little at least? Lol

[MementoMori777]

Sounds to me like he just needs a hobby and spends too much time busting nuts, at this point its possible he's just enjoys busting nuts and just does what he can to bust one, when was the last time y'all did something together as a couple that wasn't sexually related?

[Asker]

And I try to do different stuff in bed. I've done all his kinks, which I do enjoy, I give him head, he gives me head, I'm loud and expressive, we switch up positions frequently, etc. I'd like to think our sex life isn't boring. Could my pussy just be wrong or unsatisfying tho?

[MementoMori777]

Bro why you still blaming your pussy 😂, he has an addiction, he's just spending too much time busting nuts and he seems to live a lifestyle with too much sexually related activities, that's just unhealthy for anyone, which clearly like anything, his tolerance is crazy high

[Asker]

We go on dates and stuff too. Like out to eat and shopping, etc. And he cooks me dinner after work sometimes. It's not just about sex. I'm just saying we have an active sex life.

[MementoMori777]

Then that kinda answers your question don't it

[Asker]

And since we have an active sex life, that's why I was concerned that he wasn't satisfied with our sex life. Lol could it be that he finds those women more attractive than me or something? He gets hard very easily for me tho.

[MementoMori777]

Maybe sometimes he just like seeing other pussies, I'm sure enough sex and enough of the same things constantly, it gets boring, some get bored faster than others, it's why it's best to not have sex so constantly cause after enough time it becomes a repetitive event and it's not gonna be as exciting as it used to be

[Asker]

What do you mean it answers my question?

[MementoMori777]

y'all have a very active sex life, that basically answers your question on why he masturbates after sex

[Asker]

If he's getting regular, good sex, why does he need to masturbate afterwards then? Still kinda confused on that, I'm sorry.

[Asker]

Because I fuck him too much? Is that what you're saying?

[MementoMori777]

He gets turned on quick, it has nothing to do with you, I think it comes with the porn addiction, I'm sure if you were the problem he would be on porn full time 😂

[MementoMori777]

But not just you, he just has to control himself which at this point only he can make the change

[Asker]

Okay, so what do you mean by he would be on porn full time? Because he watches it everyday, isn't that considered full time? Lmao...

[MementoMori777]

I mean he would be watching it over having sex with you as well but considering he has sex with you shows you aren't the problem, he is just really horny all the time I guess

[Asker]

So if he's doing it after sex, it still doesn't mean I'm my body isn't good enough or that I'm not doing good enough sexually?

[Asker]

*that

[MementoMori777]

Nope it means he just got turned on again and now he's masturbating, I think he should overcome his addiction but I guess it all depends if it bothers you or not

[Asker]

It does kinda bother me because how is he getting turned on again after an hour if we had really good sex and he came? Lmao but I understand that I don't have the right to tell him what to do with his body so I just feel kinda bad about myself.

[MementoMori777]

I guess the best you can do is come to the realization that you aren't the problem, could've been worse, he could've chose it over you and that would suck even more, imagine if he wouldn't chose his hand over your pussy, that would be terrible no lie.

[Asker]

Thats true. So I guess he's satisfied with the sex with me if he hasn't stopped fucking me?

[MementoMori777]

That would be my assumption, yes, but clearly it's not certain, but it seems that way

[Asker]

It has nothing to do with my pussy not giving him good orgasms?

[MementoMori777]

Nope I don't think so

[jjj101010]

Maybe he just has a very high libido

[Anonymous]

I'd flip out on my boyfriend if he ever did that

[Asker]

Yeah I have no idea what's wrong with me sexually. This doesn't seem to happen to other girls. I think my pussy just can't satisfy my man.

[Anonymous]

I often need porn afterwards too

[Asker]

Do you think he's not satisfied by me?

[Opinion Owner]

You can be the greatest but if our partner is worn out and we want to keep going, we need porn

[Asker]

I wasn't worn out, I asked him if he wanted to go again and he said no and then went to use porn.

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe porn is the appetizer or the dessert. But if he considers porn the main meal, then you have a problem

[Asker]

So it's not because he wasn't satisfied by the sex we had?

[Opinion Owner]

No its just a bonus round. Im not sure how to explain it. Okay like we could turn our guys on like crazy but the way we stroke them off will never feel the same as how they stroke themselves during masturbation. Kind of like that

[Asker]

Does your boyfriend masturbate after sex too? I feel kind of alone in this topic. It's common for women to masturbate after sex, that comes up very frequently. But men don't usually masturbate after sex unless they're not satisfied. Lol

[Opinion Owner]

I said its me that does it instead of my boyfriend. Your boyfriend may be a former porn addict like I was. Its not about not being satisfied all the time. Its more of a bad habit

[Asker]

Just feels like my pussy isn't satisfying enough. But I guess that's my problem. Thanks for ur help...

[bananathunder]

sometimes you just need that nut that only you can give yourself...

[Opinion Owner]

@bananathunder yep this is what i mean

[bananathunder]

I 100% agree... add me if you ever want to chat