I've been having sex with a guy and his penis never gets fully hard. Still a little soft and he takes forever to nutt if he even does nut. Why is that? Is he not attracted? Doing drugs? Is that normal?
Have you asked him what he's into? Some guys have some very kinky fantasies or might be into role playing.
Some guys might want a dominant woman and get bored of missionary. In the end, I would ask what really turns him on. You can try talking dirty with him too.
I'm not sure how long you've been having sex together so I don't know how long he's had this problem, or what you've already done/tried. If he's had this issue for a long time, then yeah, it could be drugs. But in the end, you gotta ask to know.
thanks for the MHO
He has the devil's death grip. Meaning he has trouble getting hard, staying hard and cumming without his own manual stimulation and porn, this is caused by too much jerking off and porn. Maybe sleep with him naked without sex and he will be fully hard by the morning, you may even wake up with a hard dick in being thrust into you as you sleep. If he still has problems cumming just suggest he jerk off to you while you make out, play with his balls, sit on his face, wiggle your butt, stick your tits in his face etc and let him cum on you ass/tits/face/belly pussy and so on. You may even have him jerk of to the point of orgasm and have him put his dick in you and let him pump until he cums as normal or take over jetking him off so he cums in your hand or suck him off until he cums.
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Not being attracted to you is probably way down in the list. There are soooooo many things that can affect that. Diet. Alcohol. Medicine. His thyroid. Weight. Fitness. Tiredness. Stress. Stuff on his mind. Drugs at possible but probably not the first thing you should think of if that's not usually like him. Same for not being attracted to you. (if that were the case his pants wouldn't be off to begin with).
Medication (especially any antidepressant), stress,
Perhaps he is nervous or anxious or maybe even both
What age is he? Does it happen every time, or is it sporadic? Lots of possibilities, including his physical condition, age, blood pressure problems, alcohol, drugs et cetera. If none of those health things exist, he should try 100 mg of Viagra an hour before you are going to fuck, and he should have a very hard penis then.
I agree with you, but 100 mg is a huge dose to start with. Doctors will usually start a patient out with 25-50 mg. I know, I’ve taken sildenafil (generic viagra) for over 8 years at the 100 mg dose. My urologist recently changed it over to 20 mg of tadalafil (generic Cialis). I had been taking sildenafil every night because of the other benefits besides ED. Because of the 20 mg dose of the dollar fill, my urologist only gives me 12 pills per month. Each one lasts about about 24 hours for me. The side effects are much less noticeable.
@mrmonogamous Thank you for your input. I am going to look into getting Cialis. I buy it online through a private company, and it comes to me from India.
It's not that he is not attracted to you he just needs to find the right kink to make nice and stiff some guys like the hunt more then the act and some times less is more wear the sexy clothing where something that's a bit small to expose the chest or ass a bit not a lot but it just sounds like you got to find the right kink and the right things to say in bed.
He could be drunk or stoned. Ask him to see his doctor to get checked to rule out any medical conditions.
Could be a stimulation thing; as in he isn't being stimulated enough.
Maybe he masturbates a lot?
Not normal. Probably drugs.
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