Why would a guy not hide his boner?

I (24f) was sat at my desk when my boss (42m) comes and stands next to me to talk and he had the biggest boner pointed down against his left leg.

Why wouldn't he try to hide it before coming to talk to me? Or even carry something to block the view?

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My direct manager (f) was also in the room, so why would he risk her seeing it too?
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Superb Opinion

  • Working off of very little detail here. Could be that he thought it wasn't noticable, somehow didn't notice himself, or got caught up in thought, though frankly all those seem unlikely to me.

    If I were you, I would have my gaurd up a bit, and be ready to take further events as a pattern and start building a case with hr over possible sexual harassment. You have to protect yourself.

    And gents, because I know someone would answer this. Even if the question asker did like it, or you have some image in your mind, it still doesn't make it okay. Don't try and make this dirty.

    • It was very big and made his trousers tighter so I don't understand how he wouldn't feel it.

    • Yeah, I would be extremely aware, and maybe make a statement to hr that you may have a concern, to a level of detail you think is warranted

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  • It could also be that he is "big soft" aka a shower and his D is above averaged size therefore regardless of what he wore it would still show even if he's not erect.

    Presumably he didn't care that it shows.

    • It definitely wasn't soft, you could see that it was pushing against his trousers

Most Helpful Girl

  • Maybe he just gets boners all the time so he’s not self conscious about it. Some guys do just seem to get hard all the time and if it happens often he probably doesn’t care about hiding it anymore.

    • You shouldn’t judge him for it, especially if there was another woman there it’s natural the same way woman get wet randomly.

    • But surely there's common courtesy to try and hide it

    • I don’t see why, he was wearing pants right lol My nipples get hard all the time and point through my bra and shirt guys might look but that’s not my problem. Don’t take things personally he’s allowed to be comfortable in his own body.

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  • wants you to see him hard 🙄

  • From time to time I pitch a tent & if I’m in front of an attractive woman why hide it. On the flip side you can always tell your boss to put that thing away.

  • Where?

  • Your boss is a moron. All I can say about somebody being that stupid.

  • Maybe it was too big to hide.

  • He was most likely showing off.

  • He obviously wanted youbto see it. He most likely wants you to do more the see it through his pants.

    • The risk of getting caught turns him on almost as much as you do.

  • How do know it was hard? Could have been his flaccid penis. I don't know, wasn't there. If he was showing off, you can turn him into HR. Will your direct boss back you up? If she saw? Up to you. But talk to HR.

  • maybe he wanted you to see it so you know how big it was?

  • He's showing off

  • obviously he was showing off

  • You should have touched it as it was standing up for your attention so next time RIDE IT Baby

  • Did you like it?

  • It’s just natural and he doesn’t care about it much?

  • Most likely because he liked you too damn much and he wanted to be honest about it