Why would a guy really want to have sex with a girl?

[Anonymous]

But not have anything else to do with her?

[MTC29]

I've met lots of women while I was traveling who I had sex with and that was all. As an American man, if I met a British chick while traveling in Greece, it's not likely I'll ever see her again. In the meantime, let's have some fun.

Honestly, English girls seem to enjoy having sex- much more than their American counterparts.

[ohshee]

That's basically because he's selfish and he wants to use you he only wants you when he wants you he doesn't want to do anything with you he doesn't want to get closer he just wants to fuck you and leave so you have to make the choice is that what you want

[MrOracle]

It's because (most) men can separate sex from relationships/love/emotional connections, while most women cannot. Most women cannot seem to grasp this about men, because their own experience is so different, but women need to understand that most men can enjoy sex for its own sake without needing to have any feelings involved, or to need or want anything more with the girl. It's like wanting to eat when you've had no food for 3 days - the urge to have sex is very strong, but it doesn't need to be tied to feelings for men. That's not to say that men don't have feelings for women - they do - but a given man will have feelings for only specific women - just as women have feelings only for specific men. The difference is that men's SEXUAL interests are in NO way limited to his romantic interests.

For a man to desire sex, he merely needs to be horny, and to find a woman physically attractive to him. That's it. He doesn't need to like her romantically - he doesn't even need to know her. If she's physically attractive - meaning if she's a 5 or better out of 10 in his eyes - that's generally enough. It's NOT a high bar to hurdle.

The problem that women have is that most women only want sex with guys they have a romantic connection with, and so the project those priorities and motivations on men and assume that men work the same way - we do NOT. By projecting those attributes onto men, this causes women to make lots of bad assumptions about men's motivations, which then results in lots of confusion and hurt when things don't work out the way she hoped. Men are often very clear and upfront about the encounter being nothing more than sex, and women will nod and agree, and yet still believe that it means something more, and then are hurt when it isn't.

For men, the pleasure that comes from sex is ALL the motivation he needs to have sex. It does NOT need to have any further meaning or importance for him to want it or enjoy it. He doesn't have to have feelings for the girl. He doesn't even have to know her name - she just needs to be attractive and willing.

Women: if you want sex with feelings, then you need to get a boyfriend, and establish that relationship FIRST, or at least be VERY sure that a relationship is what he's looking for, before you have sex. Otherwise, if you agree to have sex without establishing a relationship (or at least strong intentions in that direction) first, then you should always assume that the sex you are having is JUST SEX, and that the pleasure from the sex is the ONLY goal, and that the sex absolutely does NOT imply anything further. If you can't have casual sex without having any further expectations or getting attached to the guy, then you have no business having casual sex at all. Stick to having sex in relationships that you've clearly defined.

[WalkingInTheRain7]

Because, he's lusting after her, in agreement with said desires to fornicate, and then carried out said act in sex. Once he's done, he, for whatever reason, decides to just move on from the girl. One night stand in a nutshell, in some cases.

[WalkingInTheRain7]

most cases*

[sbnalenon]

Lust I guess

[Guffrus]

Biological imperative.

[DonkeyDan]

Because you can have a glass if milk without buying a cow 😂

[AviatorTom]

Simple biology. The male body is built to have sex... often. It's an innate desire (bordering on a need) to have sex, and (biologically) it doesn't matter who the sex is with.

[megabamse]

Because they at the time don't want something serious. Or they don't see them self in a relationship with that someone, but they are sexy enough to enjoy for a bit. Girls do the same thing, it's not rocket science.

[MrtoddsWildRide]

Because sex is a pleasurable experience and some men are happy to not have any sort of emotional connection with a fuck buddy.

[spiralshape]

Because guys are desperate and simps these days... they should watch 'alpha m' aka Aaron on YouTube

[Wise4myage]

He's just into hookups and doesn't want to be tied down.

[Emanon25]

Not a good idea

[Asker]

? Wdym

[Godsvengeance]

Because sex is awesome

[jasco]

Why not? sex feels good

[TallAnon]

That's just basic human instinct, we procreate to survive. We are meant to go up to women and produce a new generation.

[CharlieDMX]

If she arouses you sexually bit she is an insufferable person, it might happen. You as a man might even want to have rough sex "to give her a lesson".

It's more common than you think

[bananathunder]

wants to get off and you happen to be available?

[BlackBull6]

Why would a guy want to get a coffee from a local shop instead of buying the shop itself?

[Anonymous]

Gotta bust dat nut

[Anonymous]

Wdym? Most women are horrible people. You know this. What else do they have to offer?

[Anonymous]

The hookup culture means most women have priced themselves out of the market so the options for men is either walk away completely, or sex with no strings.