Again with this degrading bullshit lmao.. women.. I've read so many of these, even woman telling another woman "Why would you get on your knees while giving him a BJ" or "Why do you let him cum on your face, wth is wrong with you" or now "why would he slap me like that, it's degrading" (even though you did like it a lot when you were having sex) It doesn't have anything to do with that lol He just likes doing that, and he's sure you will like it too (and you did, which means he knows you well) And while in the heat of the moment (it's rough sex ffs, don't expect him to gently caress your back or spine :p) he just did that. If it was a light choke and also a light slap on the face then it's okay, if it was really hard you should talk to him about it, tell him you like it, but he can't just slap the shit out of you.. You were very aroused (cause of the rough sex) and that's why you liked it, but after you finished having sex you felt weird and wrong for liking it.. I think you should trust the horny and aroused you more in this case, but that's just my opinion. It's just a part of a lot of couples sex life, and it shouldn't feel degrading, because it's purpose is not to make you feel that way. But you know yourself better so if you like it just enjoy, if not, tell him to stop doing it and that's it! :D
It is a fetish some girls and guys are n to. He should NEVER do that without a conversation first.
Its all about domination. To know that you care for him enough to relinquish all control to him. I've know several guys with this fetish. I like a little ruffness choking, bitting, spanking but I draw the line at slapping my face. It's a little degradating to me too. I think you should just mention it to him.
sometimes as art of being rough and belittling sexually guys slap, choke, and demand girls to do stuff. I'm not a fan of being slapped but some guys enjoy it. You need to have a discussion with him about what you are and are not comfortable with, obviously this seems to cross the line
He feels like he is in control. Don't worry it's normal to be turned on. My boyfriend doesn't slap me but he does tend to choke me and I love it.
Some guys like it rough like that, if you don't like it tell him!
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Its about being dominant and it can be fun if its done right. If you didn't like it then just tell him and just set the boundaries as to what can and cannot be done.
Just an inconsiderate bastard... next time when your giving him a BJ... punch him in the nuts and ask him how he likes it?
as much as i like rough sex, im not into being slapped across my pretty face. i probably would slap him back
whoa! i love a little fight to be honest! lol
@CaliSoccerFella lol, i bet you do.
Porn and dominance
its rough
They see it on movies and porn. Some people find it heightens sexual pleasure
lol, this is pretty funny. not the slapping, but the fact that you liked it, but then didn't because you thought about it. and then question why he likes it.
a lot of girls like slight choking. the slaping though is probably a thing he´s seen in porn. tell him that you don´t like it and that he´s not allowed to do it anymore.
Haha I do this shit all the time, women secretly fucking love it.
He's into rough sex.
If she asks for it it say are you sure many times and if she confirms I slap and light choke her.. It turns her on and makes her thrust and moan more which in turn turns me on.. Only ever done it to my wife though...
We all have specific way to give pleasure to our partners.. nothing wrong about it !!
Because some guys just like rough things and some girls love their neck getting held
Dude watches too much porn.
i think this could be the start of something bad.
He saw it in porn. Just tell him to lay off or only slap your ass.
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