Why would a guy thurst hard and fast when he first puts it in you?

He didn't start slow and speed up. He just went hard and fast straight away.
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He went down on me for 10 minutes before and made me squirt so I wouldn't say he was selfish
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Superb Opinion

  • Maybe he was just having sex for the first time and thinks woman orgasm from hard sex and knows nothing about the clitoris. You should talk to him if you don't like having it

Most Helpful Girls

  • My last boyfriend used 2b kinda like that. I told him…n we agreed he could do that and cum. Then in a few minutes I would get him ready for another time n was about me. It’s amazing how fast they can go if u tell them it’s alright.

    • This is exactly what my first girlfriend used to do and I loved it. First one was ‘go as fast as you like’ and then round 2 was all about her

    • @ANDYB88 yes…I usually get worked up knowing he’s like happy with me.

    • Yeah - she was great like that - this was over 15 years ago and I genuinely still think about that

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  • No clue... my boyfriend always starts slow to work up to the fast pumping..

Most Helpful Guy

  • is there a law somewhere that says you can't go hard and fast right away? xD people do sex how they like. if you don't like it, negotiate that with him.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • sexually frustrated

  • Because he doesn't know what he is doing. That's WHY.

  • My guy usually starts really slow.

  • Sadly you were probably his first.

  • Inexperience.

    • This.

  • Don't know what he is doing, don't care how it feels 4 u, just try to cum fast could be anything

  • Lack of experience?

    • @msputiton agree!

  • Because you didn't ask him not to when he tried. Perhaps he thinks that is normal.

  • I usually don't go hard and fast from the start

  • He was there only for the raw sex and not the loving part.
    If you were sufficiently lubricated. Maybe he thought that you were ready to really take a pounding.

  • He's a virgin.

  • Because it feels really good

  • sounds like he has no idea what he is doing... those are the actions of an animal that just wants to get off. I always try to go at the pace of the girl. That way i know she is enjoying it. I'm gonna get off eventually anyway

  • Inexperienced, maybe self absorbed?

  • He likes the girl for sex

  • Maybe you should squeeze his balls hard and fast instead of slowly and gently at first the next time

  • He is a gimp.

  • It's quite normal to do it that way with a one nighter or booty call.

    It also feels better.

  • He likes a quick fuck?