Why would a guy who watches porn condone his girlfriend from joining it? Is he a hypocrite?

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Joining it* meaning becoming and active amateur porn star.
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Let me rephrase: why would a guy condemn his girlfriend from joining the porn industry, yet he himself watches it religiously?
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  • You mean like she want to be in porn?

    Umm just cause a guy watches something doesn't mean he wants his girlfriend to be doing it.

    I mean if he was watching I don't know movies about psycho killer girls you think he wants his girlfriend to be the same?

    • It’s all an act. Why doesn’t he tell his favorite porn stars to quit their job? He finds pleasure feeding his mind with porn, so if he’s so against me jumping into it, why does he watch it?

  • Condone?

    con·done
    verb

    1. accept and allow (behavior that is considered morally wrong or offensive) to continue.
    2. approve or sanction (something), especially with reluctance.

    Is that really the word you meant to use?

    • I fixed it! Haha

    • Okay. HUGE difference between watching porn and bring a porn star. I don't want to be in bed with a girl who has fucked 6 other guys this week. D like to feel more important than that.

    • 6 a week? Try 3+ a day on average, and that's only the guys. At least that many girls if not more as well. Although most guys are more okay with girls doing things together

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  • This isn't hypocrisy. One is just a masturbation fantasy with someone you don't interact with..

    The other is physically acting out sex with someone else.

    • It's one thing if you guys are in an open relationship and have said its OK to have sex outside the relationship.. But if its monogomous, then yeah of course he is right to not feel okay about his girlfriend sleeping with other people.

    • We’re not in an open relationship. Ok thinking outside the box: Why would you watch a woman for pure pleasure getting off to other me, but find it to be such filth that you would never consider dating one? Do you feel guilty after masturbating to porn?

    • To other men*

  • Several possibilities:

    1. He hates what he’s doing, knows he has a bad habit and may or may not be trying to break it (he’s disgusted with porn the way most men are but still watch it anyways), and he doesn’t want the girl to degrade herself (which is what porn does).

    2. He has positive attitudes towards porn, but wants to keep you to himself (not show your face or body online, etc).

  • Depends what you mean, he can't object if his girlfriend watch porn if he does it, but he can certainly be against her becoming a porn star. Seeing and doing is two different things.

    • Why would he be against it? That’s not fair.

    • Because he doesn't want you to have sex with other guys and exposing yourself to the world for money. Would you want your boyfriend to fuck around for money?

    • I just can’t make sense of this.

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  • i would encourage her myself

    • @update lol yeah you did get that a bit mixed up but i knew what you meant anyway... the way i see it is that i enjoy porn and because of that i respect every woman that allows me to enjoy it by performing on camera... be she a stranger or if she was a girlfriend i certainly wouldn't judge her badly for making that choice in life

    • Interesting... a lot of guys don’t feel that way. And yeah, was a bit buzzed! I feel like a few knew what I meant, lol

    • i know they dont but i have never been 'most guys'

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  • By consuming it he is supporting the industry, so in a sense, yes he is.
    But I guess I can understand why one wouldn't want their partner to be in porn.

    • Would you date a porn star? Settle down and marry one? Why or why not?

    • Judging for my personality, I doubt I'd ever meet one. I'm also not into cucking.

    • Say you met one, and she was interested in you, now what?

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  • Watching and participating are two entirely different things. If it was about watching, then yes, he's a hypocrite. If it's about participating, he's giving her some pretty decent advice.

    • So if every girl who’s participating in porn stopped right now because of your descent advice, who does that hurt? The viewers? All of you guys who watch it but wouldn’t allow your own girl participate in it?

    • Do you enjoy missing the point? Watching is different than participating. The porn industry is fucking garbage, they treat you like shit and they pay almost nothing unless you're in the top 50 most popular porn stars. That's why it's good advice. Even escorts have it better, which should say something cuz they have it pretty shit too. It doesn't make a guy who WATCHES porn a hypocrite to say his girlfriend shouldn't PARTICIPATE in porn.

  • No he's not.
    Also if he objects to her becoming a pornstar its still not hypocritical. Objecting to ger watching porn would be.
    Watching something is very different from physically getting involved

  • Because porn is a bunch of pictures or videos. Who would want to even meet the people behind it let alone have someone you respect go down hill like that.

    • You don’t watch porn, so I can understand why you’d be against it.

    • Also, how can you respect yourself if you watch porn but not respect the chicks who do it?

    • Like I said it's a bunch of pictures. If we were to ban porn tomorrow it would not benefit some coomer in his mom's basement. That is not who porn is harming despite what people keep saying. Porn is harming the stupid women who act in it and the moron behind the camera. These are the people catching disease and bleeding off precious time in seedy fetishes. The coomer jerks off and goes back to his video games and no one knows or cares. The people on the other side of the screen have let the pleasure of sex consume them like heroin or methamphetamine, they use it as a drug and it's warped them.

  • Because there’s a difference between watching it and being in it lmao

    • So you would never date a porn star. Got it.

    • I’d hook up with one. Wouldn’t date one though. Hell no.

    • I wouldn’t date you if I knew you hooked up with a porn ⭐️

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  • I think you mean "NOT condone."

    • Omg I hardly use this word I forgot how to use it in context! *sigh*

  • That's about like saying my guy looks at other girls so why can't I fuck other men.

    • That’s just looking. Porn is real fucking

    • Porn is OTHER people fucking. Apparently you want to be the one fucking other dudes.

    • No, I’ll just be doing it for the money

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  • Did you mean to say condemn? To condone something means more or less to support it.

    • Just saw the update lol. My bad 😅

    • Lmao! Ugh

  • Sometimes, porn is a private thing and not something one wants to share.
    My wife has her movies, I have mine.

  • He wants to keep her all to himself?

  • Watching porn and having your girlfriend do it are teo very different things. If you watch SVU would you be okay with your boyfriend becoming a perp?

    • Ok, so should I break up with him? I mean, these girls doing porn—don’t they need love too? What kinda man would date them? Because I’m getting the idea that watching them is all their good for now.

    • If you really want to do porn and he is against it I would break up with him. In essence it would be the same if he expected you to stay with him while he's fucking the town, because porn requires a lot of random dudes fucking you.

  • Because he doesn't want other people getting off on his girl

  • He probably thinks men are the ones who decide and women can't.

  • Id have no problem with it!

  • I would want the real thing, fuck porn fantasy bullshit...

    • Thanks for your input. 🤐

  • Good question

    • Good answer 👍

    • Thanks.

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