Why would a man become mean too you after you refuse them sex?

I've refused men sex and they called me ugly, started horrible rumors about me, or just blocked me?

If theirs no true emotional connection, why do they care? Just go to the next one?

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Superb Opinion

  • I absolutely don't agree with men doing this - it's wrong and mean - but I understand WHY they do it: they don't want to be turned down for casual sex, and if they can shame you when you turn them down, they hope that the next time, you'll give in and give them sex in order to avoid being shamed. It almost never works, of course, but there ARE going to be some low-self-esteem women who WILL give in and give them sex just for a bit of positive validation.

    Keep in mind that the kind of guy who is going to do this is a low-value person to begin with, and such people usually have terrible morals and values, and tend to be selfish and self-centered and don't care who they hurt. Consider who you are dealing with before you feel hurt by it - should you really take the opinion of such a low-value person seriously? I think not.

Most Helpful Guy

  • No need to be ugly about it, but my first wife decided she was going to withhold sex for a whole year before we got married and to be honest, I should’ve dumped her ass because I got used to being with her without the sexual component, but I was still horny and I was looking elsewhere. no offense if you’re denying him just once or twice a month and still having a healthy sex life he shouldn’t act so childish but if you only work once a week once a month, I’ll be waiting for someone else to, but I don’t think I’d call you names. I would hope that I’d be more mature than that.

Most Helpful Girls

  • They feel entitled and when you deny them what they feel entitled to, they get nasty. For a lot of men, we’re just an object to satisfy their desires. How dare we have feelings of our own that interfere with that. It’s the same way with incels. Their nastiness stems from a sense of entitlement.

  • Guys hate the word “no” when it comes to ANYthing sexual.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • They are assholes... dump their ass and move on there are some nice guys out there.

  • Oh nah, run away blonde, that means that's what he was aiming for

    • This is why I give women the advice to refuse sex when they are uncertain about someone, sometimes their ego makes em crack and show the true colors

  • Men do not need emotional connection for sexual attraction and desire to screw.

    • Yes but it’s not like they asked me out on a fancy date and told me to wear my best dress

    • You know who gets more action that the other girls? The fat chicks guys won't be seen with in public and they aren't getting just the bottom of the Barrell either. Men will stick it in anything. With that being said, any guy who shames you for refusing has no other options and despite you maybe being ugly that was is only chance for the foreseeable future lol

  • Some guys will do anything for sex, no matter how low.

  • cause people get mopy, when their sexual hopes are disappointed. don't act like women don't know this feeling. has a man never denies your sexual advances?

    • I’ve never tried to have sex with a man purely for sexual pleasure I’m looking for true love

    • love has nothing to do with that. you'll get mopy if your husband denies you sex and you may act bitchy in retaliation. shit happens. nobody is above it.

  • Rejecting him must have offended him.

  • Because he's an ass who thinks of women as objects and thinks he's entitled to their bodies.

  • Because they were only being nice in the hopes of having sex.

  • Some guys seem to think that they are God’s gift to women. . That women should beg to be blessed by their presence.
    As long as enough women give in to them. They have no reason to change!

  • Red flag Em.

  • he's an egoistic asshole, thats why.

  • does not like being told no

    • That’s psycho and rapist behavior to adhere too, just find the next warm body of that girl is truly worthless too you

  • they call ugly? hahaha u are so beautiful :)

  • disrespectful people disrespectful everywhere