Why would a man have difficulty ejaculating?

Is this a sign there is a problem in the relationship?
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  • Ouch. I was with a few guys that wouldn't cum with me either, no matter how I tried to turn them on!

    Yet other guys? No issue!!! So unless he has a medical condition, he might not be attracted to you the same way you feel about him.

    Talk to him about his likes and fantasies in bed and see if that helps. But if he's still not turned on? There might be other issues.

Most Helpful Guys

  • There are many reasons. I was on anti-depressants for a while and found it impossible to ejaculate, despite desperately wanting to. Tiredness is another reason; when my wife and I have sex, it's always in the morning, after coffee, and it's always fantastic. Problems at work, financial worries, could be many things. It doesn't necessarily mean your relationship has problems. If he gets an erection okay, but can't climax, it probably isn't a relationship problem. But I'm no expert and only making suggestions. You're really going to have to try to talk to him about it. Good luck to you both, and stay safe.

    • Thank you.

  • Maybe he has some health issue causing this or could be medications causing it one time I took the medication called Mellaril an old anti-psychotic medication and it caused me ejaculation failure which means I would fail to ejaculate so glad I went off that medication.

    • Thanks For Most Helpful Guy :)

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • How long are we talking about and is it all the time, even first thing in the morning?

  • not really

  • Could be nerves

  • He's older 35
    He already masterbated so there nothing left
    He's not aroused
    Drugs or alcohol

  • he fap to porn so much so he have no/almost no sperm left inside his "tank"

  • Nope... strictly a medical situation. He should see a urologist for diagnosis

  • Could be medical issue or he’s not sexually attractive to that girl

  • There's dozens of reasons why

  • It may be a prostate issue. Have him get checked out by his Urologist.

  • Pain killers can do that. Prostate health, how long since they have been in a relationship. Find out and go from there

  • It can have thousands of reasons

  • Maybe he jerks off too much

  • yes or he's gay