Guys, why would a man only seek sex in a woman and nothing more?

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  • Because men have a drive for sex, but sex by itself, for men, is a simple thing. The "something more" you refer to is obviously a relationship, and those are complicated, and come with a long list of restrictions, limitations, expectations, and responsibilities for men. If it's just sex, then it's simple. He doesn't need to text you 20 times a day, he doesn't need to go with you to visit Aunt Rita on the weekend when he was going to hang out with guy friends, he doesn't have to be shy about watching another girl cross the street, he doesn't have to loan you money when your car breaks down and no one else can help you, etc., etc.

    Would you rather go to a restaurant and pay for a meal, eat it, and leave, and be finished in under an hour, or would you rather go work on a farm for 20 hours to save 25% on the price of the meal? Obviously paying full price is far less work and hassle, and that's a decent analogy of why casual sex is simple and relationships are a ton of extra time and work and effort and sacrifice.

    One other factor is: if he's good-looking, confident, popular, etc. - the things that attracted you in the first place - then he's attracting other girls as well. Why would he give all that up for one girl and a lot more hassle? The fact is, the more attractive a man is - the higher his rating from 1 to 10 - the LESS likely he is to want a relationship, and the more likely he is to just remain single and be a player, and you will NOT change a player into a "relationship guy."

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  • You kinda answered your own question. They do it for the sex.

  • If you were looking for sex where else would you go? As long as there are men looking for sex there will be men who seek women for this by itself.

  • Well for me it's because I have love already.

  • Because all he values from her is sex

  • Because Sex don't have to mean anything? in that case it's just masturbating but 10x better.
    And to build a good relationship it wouldn't be based off sex anyway. You love someone for them not for not sex. And i don't think i really need to explain why a better form of masturbation is good a thing lol

  • Because he's already married? Pfft!

  • Because that's all he can handle.
    Or all he knows about?

  • I'm still a virgin

    • Find a girlfriend and enjoy, boy

  • Because he has other women that address his other needs more to his liking.

  • Hormonal urges... and this is not exclusive to men as I know plenty of women who do the same and in all age groups.

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