Why would guys want to sleep with a lesbian?

Is it the taboo of it? I don't understanding wanting sleep with someone who doesn't find you attractive nor would cater to your sexual needs?

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So I guess based on some of the “logic” I’ve seen here, it’s okay for gay guys to try to sleep with straight dudes then.
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Suddenly when the same behavior is turned onto men from gay men it’s “not okay” 😆
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  • There are pros and cons. Every lesbian I knew wanted dick every now and then, though I might not be their type. Anyway, the pro is that you have zero obligation to take responsibility, especially if they have a girlfriend, the pressure from the gay community is greater than the pressure to find the baby daddy and get child support. There's also a decent chance of having a threesome, though it may be lacking in enthusiasm, as only one party will likely be into you, and then only at that period in time.

    As for the con, it's that you'll never have a relationship, at most friends with benefits, if a relationship is what you're looking for.

    When I was young, tearing through women, and not ready for a commitment after a divorce it was ideal for me when the option was there. Lesbians craving cock is like vegans craving a steak though. That could be every month, every 3, once a decade, because their girlfriend is bi. If you're looking forwards to it, or thinking it'll be poontang in the bank or something... it is exceedingly rare, you're more likely to fulfill an impregnation fetish than get laid by a lesbian in my opinion.

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  • I don't know. Is there something wrong with sleeping with a lesbian? Do they bite or do other nasty tings while you're sleeping?
    Oh! Fucking! Well, on one hand, I think it's that it's the forbidden fruit. On the other hand, it's kind of a badge. On the other hand, it's just a case of him being so cocksure that he thinks that if you fuck him, you'll switch to only wanting guys and that gives him an even bigger badge! "I'm such a great fuck, I even made a lesbian switch to only wanting guys!!" Personally, any girl can sleep with me any time she wants to with NO fear of me trying to come on to her or trying to fuck her unless SHE WANTS me to and makes it VERY clear that she wants it! I'd LOVE to have her pussy but, I'd rather have her trust!

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  • It's not taboo. If a guy finds a woman attractive he wants to f*ck her. I'm a lesbian myself and guys don't care when it comes to sex.

    It's like why are the majority of women's sports watched by men? Why are most Hollywood lgbtq movies about lesbians featuring actresses guys like who get naked for love making scenes? Why do straight women make out with each other in front of guys? Why do straight women dress in tight fitting or revealing clothes? Why is most lesbian porn watched by and made for guys? I could go on.

    Guys find hot women having sex with other hot women very arousing, even just hot women masturbating. In fact guys get aroused almost by anything a woman they find attractive does.

    • You speak the true true

  • Because they don’t understand the difference between porn and reality.

    • It's not porn. It's D doing all the talking!

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  • I think they have two very stupid thoughts in mind, often concurrent.

    1: they think they can flip them, "you just haven't had GOOD cock!"

    2: They think they can score an easy threesome, usually with reason 1 in mind.

    Truth is: a truly gay woman wants guys as much as other straight men like men, but a lot of men aren't thinking when they're thinking with their penises. It's sad really, but they brought it on themselves.

  • Could be a number of reasons: -

    Trying to flip them straight

    It's like an achievement (shagged a lesbian)

    Maybe they think it's like sleeping with a virgin assuming they have never touched another dick

    Hope it leads to a 3sum with another girl

    If they don't flip them they leave with a thought that there not a total lesbian

    Bragging rights

    Maybe hope of picking up some pointers for satisfying a woman from a woman's perspective

  • Straight sex is a taboo? in what world? conquering a lesbian seen as a big achievement.

    • As for the update, no it not okay for gays, as gays are the ones who are not normal. Are two men can reproduce? no they not, and there is also the gay panic defense situation.

    • But it’s ok for men to try to have sex with a lesbian? Lol

    • Yea, look at the 'but not too gay' trope. A man having sex with woman is normal. :)

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  • Maybe its the ego boost of thinking that the are so attractive that even a lesbian woman wants to have sex with them.

  • Didn't Bon Jovi sing about that exact scenario...

    Shot dooooown in a Blaze of Glory!
    Shot dooooown in a Blaze of Glory!
  • Lol. Me neither.

  • No. I had no interest in Bi girls either.

  • It's gotta be a fetish or something

  • Maybe it's a challenge for the guy to think that she might enjoy it. And he's going to get off just the same as with a straight woman.

  • Because there is only one bed and the room is cold.

  • You can relate to lesbians. You both like cute girls. You both think girls should fuck back more than they do. You might cheer for the same football team. Lesbians drink beer to boot.

    • Well, those are good reasons to be friends with a lesbian lol

    • :) Forgot to mention you can walk down the street and perv openly because she is too. They suddenly swizzle their heads to.

  • Mainly increased chances of threesome I'd say

  • I don't think they want to sleep with a lesbian, men's attraction to lesbian shows derives from the human's polygynous past, when a male possessed many females.

    • I’d be impressed by your misogyny if it was original. You sound like an undergrad trying to impress daddy.

  • The masochistic urge to be rejected?

  • I would want to see if I could turn her to the other side.

  • They have been brainwashed by porn.

    • No just their "mind of its own" D!

  • There is a thrill of the tabu. But in addition I'd like to try something new. Also, everything that I've learned about pleasuring a woman has been from woman who have been willing to share and I think it would be a great chance to learn from a woman who has been pleasured and has given pleasure to another woman. The couple of bi girls I've had as lovers have shown me a few things I'd never have done otherwise and they've been eye openers and I'm always open to learning new tricks

  • i haven't got a clue. It makes no sense what so ever to me

  • I've heard guys like being with lesbians because they think they'll convince her to like men.

  • maybe to brag or she wants a baby and he is helping her out maybe?

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