Well, it COULD be almost anything, but the most likely possibility is that he really likes watching you, and is absorbed by the novelty this new implement represents. If it's only been three times, it'll probably wear off and he'll go back to normal (albeit with a new option) soon. It may also be that he's experiencing (or concerned about experiencing; it can't be a self-fulfilling worry) erectile issues; he may want to ensure you're taken care of if he suspects he'll be having trouble (and that kind of visual stimulation can help jolt a reluctant-but-otherwise-functional penis back into action). Or he may be using the old "stimulate and deny" technique on himself to build to a bigger finish later, or some combination of the above.
Too many things could go wrong. At least with the toy you’re so receiving pleasure which is the goal after all isn’t it? Unless you want a kid. And want him to have to go through child support when he may or may not want to. Have you two even had that discussion?
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Huh, odd. When u get together to have sex, the whole point is to have sex.
you could pleasure yourself alone with a toy.
He either likes seeing a toy in you or there is something else... you should ask!
I think he wants you to have a good orgasm. Maybe give him a good handjob after he is done with you. If you like just tell him to get you off with the toy and then have sex sex with him. That way you get two orgasms!
I'm personally very gadget orientated so getting to pleasure my girlfriend with a toy is a turn on because it's well another type of gadget.
Also the array of gadgets/toys available for women is vast compared to what is men have so there is so much curiosity as to what affects each type has on you.
Maybe he wanted the visual excitement of looking closeup and your reactions.
he may really enjoy watching you from start to finish, it is pretty sexy watching a women go through all of the different stages before she cums, not to say he doesn' enjoy being with you.
Maybe tell him that he can start, and if you need a bit of extra help to finish at the end then bring it out.
Change of pace? Something different?
Maybe he's having erectile issues? Maybe he just likes the visual of watching a toy slide in you?
He hasn’t had any problems with ED but he has admitted he loves watching me so I wasn’t sure if it was just that. I’ve never been with a guy who wants to see me so pleased so I guess it’s just a new thing for me
then I'd say that's a safe bet if that's what he says.
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Maybe he might have some kind of rash or can't get it up right now he thinks it be safer for you to use the toy on you. You probably should ask him why the toy or tell him I want both.
I love toys but I use them as a warmup. I just think they are hot to watch….. But doesn’t stop the real thing for me.
Why should the toy have all the fun if any at all I'd be hella jealous
This toy, is it a dildo or a vibrator?
It’s a vibrating dildo. He bought one that’s similar to him
Ok. That was going to b my next question. Lol. Well I know for me, I’d prefer to b the one inside while I still used the toy on ur clit (if I was him).
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He is probably just a big kid with a new toy!
Watching a girl cum is the most erotic thing ever!!! I usually try to make the girl cum first and then I’m raging hard ready to cum myself
Ask him. Nobody here knows.
Maybe he wants to add some spicy things... to watch you while you fucked from side. Kind of voyeurism.
I had the same wish to my SO before.
Have you used a toy for him?
He admitted to me that he loves to watch me use it and see my facial expressions so I wasn’t sure if that was it since I’ve never been with a guy who truly loved to see me get pleased.
I have the same kink to be honest ) so nothing wrong with you at all ! Did you like that? I mean to be watched, to be pleased in front of him?
Thank you for your response! And yes I actually love that he enjoys watching me. It feels amazing to have someone love watching you be satisfied.
May be at some point he felt you are not satisfied with his tool. Maybe he is self conscious about his skills.
You need to talk. There is no way of knowing otherwise
To give you mupital orgasms then a few with him
Sometimes toys and getting your partner off with a toy is just as fun. Its a different kinda of experience and connection. And if you just started doing it, its still fresh and new to him
He just wants to watch you getting pleased, just like watching you masturbate.
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