Why would he talk about marriage and us getting married only for him to tell me if I want to have sex with another guy he would be ok with it?

Basically I had been feeling super horny he told me he was also feeling the same way but, every time I asked to see him and asked if we can have sex he kept making excuses not to see me! next thing I know he is telling me while he would prefer if I had sex with him he then went on to say to me he was ok with me having sex with another guy if I wanted to.

I don’t understand why be with someone for 6 years and tell them you want us to get married to than suddenly out of not where you just stop wanting to see them and, you tell them you are ok with them having sex with another guy.

we are not together anymore and my heart is broken I feel like I wasted 6 years of my life I honestly just don’t understand any of it
0 0

Superb Opinion

  • Didn't you talk about why he didn't want to have sex anymore before you broke up?
    Maybe he was having some problems with not being able to perform or get it up and embarrassed about it.

    • We did he said he couldn’t have sex with me unless we had a religious marriage and while I agreed to do the religious marriage he just kept making excuses regarding why the religious marriage wasn’t happening he basically said he had to talk to his uncle than it was him waiting on his uncle to get back to him than he said his uncle had no time than he said he was going to speak to uncle and arrange a day and time than it was once again he was waiting on his uncle to get back to him to his uncle not finding 15 minutes of his time I asked why couldn’t we find someone else and he said he couldn’t find anyone else and that only his uncle can do it

    • Really weird, git to be something else to it.

    • That’s what I think too because he began hiding things from me he even stopped talking to me about work he would go into details once before now he is like I can’t talk about it he wouldn’t even tell me what car he had brought or what his specialist appointment was about he was like it’s privilege Information only his boss can know I know he often said when we talked that he did find the girls at his work attractive I didn’t get upset as it’s normal to find other people attractive Anyway I asked him straight up what was going on and he ignored me and it was in that moment thinking about everything and having him tell me he was okay with me going out and sleeping with another guy it hit me that he had ended things with me without saying the actual words

Most Helpful Guy

  • May be, He is a gay and also, Why don't you go, try having sex with another guy?

    • I don’t really wanna sleep with someone I don’t really know because sex is painful for me if I don’t have a connection with the person I have sex with

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

What Girls & Guys Said

0 1
  • He's into open relationships?

    • Not that I know off it’s never been something we have ever talked about

    • It sounds like you need to now, lol.

    • We haven’t spoken since he ended things with me I tried to ask him before they did end what was going on but he wouldn’t tell me