Why would he want to have sex with me when he made it known I am nothing to him and than he gets upset when I dont have sex with him?

[Anonymous]

After telling me he finds me attractive and I have a good heart and so on, he than goes on to tell me we aren't friends and I am nothing to him and he won't be communicating with me but than he comes back wanting sex and expecting me to have sex with him and when I didn't have sex he started accusing me of threatening him and running my mouth and calling me the B word and an airhead after he started threatening me, telling me he is going to make me pay and he is going to make me emotionally suffer. He is also the one who said he can find someone else yet he is pissed at me for not having sex with him. If you call him names like jackass he flips out and becomes angry but he sees it as perfectly OK for himself to call myself and others every name under the sun.

I have blocked him.

[DermalPunch]

Oh dear girl. You need to be focusing on yourself right now and how you blew yourself be debased in this way. This isn't lesson and a big wake up call. You need to invest in you and build up your self worth and deepen your character. There is nothing unique here. He is just a guy doing what you will let him get away with.

[DermalPunch]

* allow *is a lesson spellchecker must die

[Asker]

I'm so confused. I never told him I was having sex with him. I was the one who told him to go and find someone else and sleep with them but he expected sex from me and than snapped because I didn't want to have sex. I'm not in a good place mentally and he knows that

[Zebadee88]

Why are you wasting your life and time speaking to this idiot?

[Asker]

I'm not that's why I blocked him. He isn't the first guy to threatened me for not having sex with them. I don't get it, I don't understand why you would threatened someone especially threatened to harm them because they don't want to have sex with you

[Zebadee88]

Well done blocking the idiot. Find a nicer person

[Asker]

Every guy I meet if they aren't raping me or emotionally abusing me they are threatening to harm me for not having sex with them. One guy I discovered after 12 months being together and meeting his family that he was engaged to another woman the entire time we were dating The one guy who I thought was different and who I believed wanted to be with me he lead me to believe for 3 years he was falling in love with me and was in love with me he even talked about us getting married but I found out he was telling other girls he was single and than he blows up at me and starts threatening me because I wouldn't have sex with him before telling me how much he hates me and he is going to make me pay They all start out sweet and nice and something changes. I truly give up putting myself out there anymore I'm in my late 30's and I've yet to find anyone who treats me right.

[Zebadee88]

50 here and found my perfect match also in her 50s