Why would her male bestie ask about her intimacy then tell her it seems excessive?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend is 29, been with her for 6 months and before this she was with her husband of 7 years whom she had been dating since high school.

4! months ago her bestie from high school days showed up in town jobless and got in touch with her.

Ok a few days ago I did a stupid thing, I rushed out for a job and took the wrong phone as both of us use the exact same phone.

a WhatsApp came from my lawyer who happens to have the same name as her bestie. The message was “He stretched your pussy good this morning?” That’s when I realised I left with the wrong phone cos the faceid didn’t work and my lawyer would prefer to stretch pussy himself rather than hear or ask such questions.

After I was done with the job, decided to take a break to have a peek at who was that creep that asked such questions.

a few more messages came from him and the last one being “Guess you been getting it good from him.”
I decided to reply “ Yes and not finished yet. Bye”

I scrolled through the conversations, it began right around when he showed up in town, at first it was a how’s life, any leads for a job etc then it went silent.

Then 2 months ago, he messaged her said he saw her with me, wanted to say hi but decided not to, she then told him about me. She told him she lived with me and also worked for me.

Then he asked “He must be big isn’t he?” She didn’t answer then he kept on asking. Then asked “Do you like it?” She didn’t answer then he asked “Bet you like it more than ********’s her ex husband)” Then again he asked “Bet his is bigger than *******’’s” She said “Yeah” then that she had to go prep dinner.

Then a week went by, she told him of a job opening which I had told her about that she didn’t want. He then told her he applied, they called but he didn’t get the job. Then again the conversation became sexual in nature, he kept asking my size, whether she liked it, how often it happened and whether I would cum in her. Sometimes he would tell her that’s really a lot of sex etc.

[boggboss]

Why would u respond to him instead of talking to your girl about it 😑

[Asker]

Trying to understand the issues

[boggboss]

But your questions should be with your girl not him

[OlderAndWiser]

Jealousy or prudishness.