Why would my boyfriend perform oral sex on me whilst not expecting me to do the same for him?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I were each other's first time. But we broke up and he lived the live of a party animal. He had sex with other girls not sure how many but at least two and we finally got back together. He's still drinking and smoking weed but he's been loyal so far. So we started having sex again and he went down on me. He continually says whenever I bring up the subject that he would never ask that of me nor expect me to do it for him which is cool because I'm so not ready to do that. I am also the first girl he's done this for. Does that make me special? I mean I already know he's crazy about me but like I must be darn special for him to not expect that of me whilst doing it for me. Or am I just reading too much into this?

[TheCunningLinguist]

It could be a few different things; A) he really wants to please you and knows your not into giving so he let you off the hook. B) He is aware that most women are not that good at giving so he'd rather not. C) He learned that he really likes giving oral and that pleasing you is just a bonus.

[MrOracle]

You are reading too much into it. Maybe he's not into BJs (not every guy is). Anyway, we can only speculate - HE can tell you the exact, real reason, so ASK HIM.

[spartan55]

You're the first girl he's done that to... so he says... don't be naive.

[FilmGuy93]

He likes you a lot, but you're probably not the first girl he's done that to. Some guys just love the flavor and smell of eating pussy.

[Yourfriend2021]

I think you might be reading too much into it if he has had sex with other girls.

[COMMODOREII]

You also might taste yummy

[Twalli]

It means he doesn't see you as just a fling.

[OnTheLevel]

Because he enjoys it and likes pleasing you.

[Nachowedgie]

Because it's fun making girls moan

[MudRucker]

Why would you waste your time on a stoner?

If he fucked two other girls it seems he has NO respect for you.

If he expects a blow job or not is not the point.

He has fucked other girls.

[Asker]

He's not a stoner. He never even smells like smoke when I'm with him and he's never smoked in front of me. And he had sex with the other girls when we were broken up and he was at least honest with me about it.

[DerK777]

Maybe he just like you and oral sex with you.

[jjj101010]

I think some guys don’t like their dicks sucked, others just love the taste of pussy

[Anonymous]

Some guys think BJs are degrading. If you're okay with doing them tell him you're willing to try with him and you don't find it degrading. Consider starting slowly by just licking his dick for a few seconds and then a little longer the next time you have sex to see if he gets comfortable with it.

[Anonymous]

Selflessness, fetish, or doesn't like the feel of blowjobs