Why would my date say no to a bj do I look ugly?

[Anonymous]

[TheSpaceGnome]

Maybe because getting a bj from a random hookup is a likely way to get stds.

"Hookup culture" is just a nicer sounding way to say "diseased skank culture" (and yes, I'm including men in the "skank" catagory too because "player" is to nice of a word).

As far as your looks go, I'd say ditch these or grow out/style for bangs, other than that you are just throwing away your looks entirely once you catch a permanent infection from your very risky lifestyle, so the question is kind of pointless tbh.

[WindAtMyBack]

You look like a total whore. I wouldn't let you anywhere near my dick. For the same reason I wouldn't let any of the other girls in the street who try to get in my car near my dick.

Truth is harsh. Anyone who doesn't say you look like a whore is lying and just being politically correct.

[Anonymous]

Probably a better then though guy. Being nice so you like him more!

Like I won't have sex till latter then I'll have sex all the time for me...

I'm better then those other losers she sucks so she will adore me saying no...

But I wanted to and saying no made me feel bad!

Red flag 😔 time to move on.

[chrissykerdock]

if you offered him a blowjob and he didn't take it then there's something wrong with him... don't listen to the creeps that said you should've offered him much more than a blowjob... your very pretty and he should've accepted your offer regardless of your dating stature with him.

[Alli39]

Might have just been looking to take things slower than that. Physical intimacy is intimacy after all.

(But also, no worries, you look cute in the pic. Love the hair.)

[Losalt]

It could be a number of reasons.
Perhaps he's religious and don't want to have sex before marriage?
Perhaps the situation just wasn't right?
Perhaps something happened that was a turn off?
Your looks isn't *all* that matters after all.

[Pyrofox]

You seem mono featured. Would be my objective advice as to why they didn't want the bj.

[DannyUk2017]

Because in the back of his mind you look "easy" and maybe even a bj for him is somethin special.

[Asker]

oh wow.

[DannyUk2017]

I'm sorry but that is my own opinion.🤷‍♂️ i don't know what he seen in you that he didn't want a bj. Fir example i love a woman that she's sensual, she loves 🍆, same as i would love her 🍑, but if is just "mechanical" then, Thanks but NO THANKS! IF it was to be at a drunken party maybe i would but sober? Nah!

[Asker]

I love sucking dick and thats why i go on dates lol

[DannyUk2017]

I didn't say you don't like or anything like that, i bet you do, but for example i love.. passion, intimacy, desire, attraction, Lust.. but not in a parking lot or some toilet or park etc...🤷‍♂️, and i like the person that i'm with to be a bit "subtile" like dressing, not to look "sluty" that would be a instant giveaway..😁, you as a body and face look gorgeous, but if you dress like that, most/all of the men that might see you, might "already" know in the back of their mind what you're after...

[madhatters4]

if they went on a date with you then it is unlikely they thing you are ugly. perhaps they just weren't in the mood, perhaps they don't do that stuff on the first date, perhaps they want to get to know you more, perhaps as the date went on they didn't see a 2nd in the future and didn't want to send the wrong message... but your physical appearance would not be the issue otherwise i imagine they wouldn't have gone on the date in the first place

[Asker]

i didn't want a 2nd date

[madhatters4]

you were going to give him a bj even though you didn't want to see him again? did he know a second date wasn't happening?

[Asker]

im pretty sure he knew. and I only go on dates for hook ups

[Pistolshrimp]

a lot of men will accept this, however many many more will not because they aren't sluts. erections are complex and take 40 chemicals and are a cardiovascular event. any damage caused to this structure can permanently cause a man to have erectile problems in the future. its likely he thought you were going to injure him in some way.

[Wendysbitterapple]

You are gorgeous. He really messed up

[Sitonmyface33]

Agreed!

[dannybear]

@wendysbitterapple How so?

[Anemone978]

Probably didn't want and STI..

[spartan55]

He didn't want to show you his tiny dinker

[Apple1996]

Maybe he was worried that he'd have to pay for your services

[cyclingkmi]

Pay? What

[Apple1996]

@cyclingkmi pay cuz she's a hoe lol

[ZackBan]

Some people actually take stds seriously maybe he's one of them

[Truthatanycost]

I would say no as well. Any guy that does not place pleasure on a pedestal and that cares about his own health is likely to say no.

[MementoMori777]

Had his ass running lol

[Bricealan]

He must have been brain dead? !

[sammyyyyasdfghjkl]

He doesn’t have to accept, if he doesn’t want it. His reasoning may not have to do with your looks.

[AviatorTom]

As pretty as you are, and dress so sexy, he may have wanted much more than a bj. Did you offer a hookup? He might have accepted that.

[RavVid]

You look fine. I don't think you would get any knock backs on blowjobs... unles you are a biter.

[Dargil]

You would have no issues getting a mouthful, I think.

[Asker]

i never do but i really wanted his lol

[RealMarek]

Probably didn’t want to risk getting an STD.

[sheenagwapa]

yoy also don't look innocent so maybe trauma maybe someone bit his d I don't know

[FunkyMonkee]

Maybe he's like me and just isn't interested in getting a blow job.
A few years ago, I got back with one of my ex-GF's and, even though she wanted me to fuck her, she wouldn't let me lick her cunt or stick my finger into it!

[andreasderjuengere]

You're ok.

Perhaps he's after the real thing, and not just looking for a quick relief?

[Drumlin2001]

Not sure why he'd say no. You look high maintenance though

[ProbablyClueless]

Ever since I experienced what it's like to have a bad BJ, I am extremely cautious about who I let suck on me.

[elizamichale1]

U look pretty n sexy darling... dont u take that on u okk... its his loss

[tfan1]

No but I would be up front with your future dates. While you are in his car or whatever - ask the guy is he looking for a possible future with you or a quick hookup? If he says future with you straight out tell him what you are looking for.

[soe11]

Your absolutely gorgeous, may be other side careful move step by step.

[smilelots]

I turned down my first girlfriend twice i was not ready just yet and we didn't not have protection either. so I would say Im smart and respectful to what my mother taught me.. be smart.. a bj well maybe he is just not ready if he asked to lick you are you ready for that.. I would be interested in what you have to say

[Sparkie460]

No you're not ugly. Some guys don't like any kind of oral sex. They just prefer intercourse. Why? I have no idea. They are missing out on so much enjoyment

[Pistolshrimp]

your mouth is the first part of digestion brother, the saliva is designed to break down organic material INCLUDING MEAT which your cock is made of. this saliva bath will cause damage to your sensitive penile glans and increases your chances of getting penile cancer.

[RyanK9b]

Must be gay. Or u did something really ugly, some big turn off.

[kellytheman]

First off you are ii no way ugly you are sexy and cute. He might rather have sex than a bj and it rare but some guys might not like a bj. Also he might be afraid to cum too fast then he might be out of energy to please you. Also you seem a little short and if he pretty tall it could be a height difference. Also he might think you might look too innocent and you no good at it. You need to prove him wrong.

[AydenHazor]

You look amazing. He might just not be ready to move on to more sexual matters

[Kinkyhubby]

Was it the 1st date? Maybe he isn't looking for a hoochie momma. Maybe he wanted something. More serious and if your where about to suck his cock the first time, he might think how many other dicks have she suck the on the first date.

[safricanluke]

Some guys don't care for blow jobs. I for one would rather be in the giving end of oral, rather than receiving. Or, he might just not have been in the mood, or had some personal hygiene worries.

So, I doubt it was because he thought you were ugly. You are most definitely not. My guess it's that it was something bothering him in his end

[jwmiller95]

Too promiscuous and that ain't what we want

[dudeinohio]

Not at all. ugly.

[jahaims]

Probably didn't want to catch anything

[Shamalien]

Not everyone is down for sex on the first date

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Fellatio ain’t something all women would perform. One girl says that penes smell, so no, and another said that She only would have sex as sexual performance.

No, You’re quite attractive.

[Nigjt]

No ur not ugly at all he must be FUCKING gay as Hell I think because I would have not stop that's for show.
God Bless

[Asker]

I got one tho

[Nigjt]

U gave or got one? Huh

[Asker]

gave one to 2 black guys i meet.

[Nigjt]

Say I'll put this way of u love giving Black Men Bj's Damn what any body else says because if that guy don't want u to give him one HELL let me say this I'll never ever stop u from giving me one not ever just FUCKING tell my ASS when a where an I'm on the Damn way. Send the info in a private text for real and I'll give you my number. God Bless

[Kacka]

it was first day if i get it right. mby he wasn't expecting it and simple was not prepared, not he knows u up for it. ask same question tomorrow :D

[JesseP1nk]

You sure that guy was not virgin?

[B4851]

Not ugly at all. As for why he'd say no, I'm not sure.

[Asker]

:( i never had a guy say no

[B4851]

There could be many reasons why he said no, and nothing to do with you.

[Asker]

like?

[B4851]

Could have been shy, maybe religious reasons, maybe he wants to date a little longer.

[Asker]

oh k :(

[B4851]

Do you have plans on going out with him again?

[OddBeMe]

He gay

[Luckycharms12]

So what he has the right to say no .

[nawtee_me]

I will take his and however more you want to give. I will do the same in return because you certainly are not ugly.

[nudeNhorny]

Either he don't like BJs and I suspect any guy would, or he is shy and need more than one date for that.

[bananathunder]

that bj doesn't look like it's gonna be free lol

[Shy_Steve]

Sorry but you do look Promiscuous and that's usually Unattractive to us Guys.

You should try dressing more Conservatively and Guys will respect you more.

[Asker]

I want d not respect

[Shy_Steve]

Your got a better chance of getting more d if you show Respect to Guys.

[barn_stormer]

maybe he though you had a disease

[Sitonmyface33]

Looks like he missed his chance at a very good time

[abc--123]

You would definitely look good with a cock in your mouth

[CubaPirate]

Ge must be guy. I for one would walk on broken glass to receive a bj from a hot girl like you

[Asker]

if u ever in Inglewood let me know daddy ill give u one..

[CubaPirate]

Thanks so much 🙏

[CubaPirate]

Send me a message Princess

[Rohaan2020]

U look great… any guy would like a bj from u

[riverrat3]

He is not too bright

[riverrat3]

He has no taste

[karekaaaa]

Maybe he dont like bj

[normandi]

May be he just had one

[Bigjake1995]

No but I don't know

[Sdexam]

Maybe he wants to have some kind of meaningful relationship and isn't just about getting his dick sucked by everyone.

[Anonymous]

If it were me, it would be because I know after a bj I’d want to go the rest of the way. That could end in two ways either an awkward conversation of me trying to talk you out of your clothes or a chance of you getting pregnant.

[Anonymous]

He may wish to take things slow in terms of physical intimacy. He may not be interested in BJ in general. May just not have been in the mood. He just may not have been that interested.