Why would my date say no to a bj do I look ugly?

Question

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Ever since I experienced what it's like to have a bad BJ, I am extremely cautious about who I let suck on me.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

You're ok. Perhaps he's after the real thing, and not just looking for a quick relief?

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Maybe he's like me and just isn't interested in getting a blow job.
A few years ago, I got back with one of my ex-GF's and, even though she wanted me to fuck her, she wouldn't let me lick her cunt or stick my finger into it!

elizamichale1 · Answer

U look pretty n sexy darling... dont u take that on u okk... its his loss

tfan1 · Answer

No but I would be up front with your future dates. While you are in his car or whatever - ask the guy is he looking for a possible future with you or a quick hookup? If he says future with you straight out tell him what you are looking for.

soe11 · Answer

Your absolutely gorgeous, may be other side careful move step by step.

smilelots · Answer

I turned down my first girlfriend twice i was not ready just yet and we didn't not have protection either. so I would say Im smart and respectful to what my mother taught me.. be smart.. a bj well maybe he is just not ready if he asked to lick you are you ready for that.. I would be interested in what you have to say

Kinkyhubby · Answer

Was it the 1st date? Maybe he isn't looking for a hoochie momma. Maybe he wanted something. More serious and if your where about to suck his cock the first time, he might think how many other dicks have she suck the on the first date.

Sparkie460 · Answer

No you're not ugly. Some guys don't like any kind of oral sex. They just prefer intercourse. Why? I have no idea. They are missing out on so much enjoyment

AydenHazor · Answer

You look amazing. He might just not be ready to move on to more sexual matters

RyanK9b · Answer

Must be gay. Or u did something really ugly, some big turn off.

safricanluke · Answer

Some guys don't care for blow jobs. I for one would rather be in the giving end of oral, rather than receiving. Or, he might just not have been in the mood, or had some personal hygiene worries.

So, I doubt it was because he thought you were ugly. You are most definitely not. My guess it's that it was something bothering him in his end

kellytheman · Answer

First off you are ii no way ugly you are sexy and cute. He might rather have sex than a bj and it rare but some guys might not like a bj. Also he might be afraid to cum too fast then he might be out of energy to please you. Also you seem a little short and if he pretty tall it could be a height difference. Also he might think you might look too innocent and you no good at it. You need to prove him wrong.

jwmiller95 · Answer

Too promiscuous and that ain't what we want

dudeinohio · Answer

Not at all. ugly.

jahaims · Answer

Probably didn't want to catch anything

Shamalien · Answer

Not everyone is down for sex on the first date

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

Fellatio ain’t something all women would perform. One girl says that penes smell, so no, and another said that She only would have sex as sexual performance. No, You’re quite attractive.