Do you know why a woman has sex with tons of men? Because she can and because she loves to fuck purely for sexual pleasure, has no hang ups or guilt about that and doesn't really give a shit about people who do. She may "settle down" later in life. Lots of women who have lots of partners early in their lives do but right now, she's having fun and great sex every night while people who have an issue with it are home clutching their pearls about how wrong it is and blah blah blah. Who would you classify as the loser in that comparison?
As far as guys using escorts, some do it because they can't find a woman who would willingly have sex with them just due to attraction and some do it out of convenience, busy people who are career focused and don't have the time and energy to devote to a relationship but still want to get laid every so often.
Every situation is different and I wouldn't generalize about either group as to who are the "bigger losers" cause generalizations are dumb.
It depends on the society but maybe it comes down. To paying for partnership/ sex. The woman be hoe. That's probably true and some people , myself included, wouldn't touch that with a ten foot pole. On the other hand if try to encourage the man who is paying for escorts/mail orders , spend money where it counts unless he is paying resaaaaaally bikini model level babes. If so. I'd just high five him and ask for a threesome.
I don't see anything wrong with paying escorts or getting a mail order bride. Although, escorts must cost a fortune.
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Not me lol, just a question from some stuff i read.
When have we said that those people are losers?
He's a loser because he actually paid someone to have sex with him. I mean, come on. How sad is that?
Also, he's a loser because he has no morals and he's a creep who would pay for sex.
I don't understand the comparison. In each of these cases it depends on the context and circumstances and background stories.
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