Why would someone resist their own feelings?

Anonymous

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i told a guy i liked him (he kissed me in July) and he said it wasn’t serious and he unfollowed me off twitter. he's a close friend too... why is he reacting this way?

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is as if he's running away? why? i simply just asked if it meant anything and he said it wasn't serious and i was like “oh i thought it was” never hearf from him again. he would talk to be after the kiss tho... it was only after i said it

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cjgsu Xper 7
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Several possibilities.
Witout know the situation here's my guesses.
Maybe eventhough they luv em maybe they fear of being hurt because they were hurt in the past.

Fear they will hurt them because they make decisions.

Maybe they not ready 2 be in a committed relationship
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- Asker
  +1 y
  who knowsss
- cjgsu
  +1 y
  Reading ur updates probably scared of a committed relationship but guys are confusing so who knows
- Asker
  +1 y
  he had an ex for 10 years (he's 23) ... I don't know :( do u think he's just supressing his feelings?
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- Asker
  +1 y
  he's not in my city rn and i know he's stressed bc of other things
- cjgsu
  +1 y
  Maybe he ain't over her that's a long relationship
- Asker
  +1 y
  no he is lol. he was talking to this other girl before me and he would tell me that he's over the other girl

Most Helpful Guys

bowenw Master
+1 y
He obviously has issues. A normal guy wouldn't be offended.
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AustinMan Influencer
+1 y
If their rational brain says it's not in their interest.
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ColHathi Yoda
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Got an example?
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- Asker
  +1 y
  look at my update
- ColHathi
  +1 y
  Oh. I have no idea, sorry :/
- Asker
  +1 y
  its mad confusing this guy
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- ColHathi
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  I don't doubt it.
Wise4myage Master
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They might unsure of themselves or lack self confidence.
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- Wise4myage
  +1 y
  He probably thinks It would affect your friendship if he went further. But unfollowing you is weird, so Id ask him about that.
- Asker
  +1 y
  he's not in my city either. i know he's may be stressed witj job search and i know he doesn't like long distance... but i feel like he unfollowed me to not be reminded of me? right?
- Wise4myage
  +1 y
  Yes, that sounds correct.
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- Asker
  +1 y
  like does he hate me or is he just resisting his feelings?
- Wise4myage
  +1 y
  I doubt it, but you need to ask him.
- Asker
  +1 y
  but why not want to be reminded of me if it “didnt mean anything” the kiss... lol
- Wise4myage
  +1 y
  I can't answer that.
- Asker
  +1 y
  sorry... but its safe to say he doesn't want to be reminded of me right?
- Wise4myage
  +1 y
  Like I said, you need to ask him.
- Asker
  +1 y
  okay
pizzalovershouse Master
+1 y
Depends on if there bad or good
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Valnac Guru
+1 y
Can’t think of any reason to do that!
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- Asker
  +1 y
  me neither. its either he hates me or doesn't want to think of me... by why?
- Valnac
  +1 y
  Maybe he’s afraid of social contact
hotmesss Xper 1
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They are affraid
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