I had a similar mentality in my teens when I was often limited to hook-ups (quickly changed my unhealthy attitude after my first real girlfriend). There was a skill involved that I had to develop to charm women at parties enough that they'd want to sleep with me (in my case I did it without ever lying to or pressuring them, which added to the challenge of being as straightforward but as charming as possible), and that development of skill accompanied by the reward of women accompanying me to the bedroom felt like an accomplishment of sorts that took hard work and skill.
0 0 0 0But "conquest" is a sort of image that might be present in competitive types of people. I'm a highly competitive type so I related all the things I worked to accomplish whether it was acing exams, winning gold medals in sports, beating my friends at a game, or anything else as a type of "conquest" favoring the metaphor of conquering new territories. The warlord metaphor appealed to me a lot visually and gave me the motivation to work harder and outdo my former self, learn new things, accomplish new goals.
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That seems unusual for a woman to say, normally the kind of thing you hear a guy say, like its an achievement, like climbing a challenging mountain. I know some people see sex with a particular person as a challenge to conquer, not everyone is in to sex for love and intimacy.
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https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/MyGirlIsNotASlut0 0 0 0Players feel that way
0 0 0 0In Colombia, the actual word is conquer. That's the word they use.
0 0 0 0I used it properly Lol it's pas- tense
Maybe she thought the person was really hot and having sex with him was a accomplishment?
0 1 0 0That's a very unhealthy attitude about sex.
0 1 0 0That seems like an unhealthy way of viewing sex
0 0 0 0How does the other person feel? Because I can say I conquered Ukraine, but if they don’t agree…
0 0 0 0might be lack of enough sex, when they get its a huge achievement for them.
0 0 0 0No she just said that after she has sex with them that she isn't interested anymore because she already conquered them..
@dollface1991 its her mind game.
No idea why a woman would say that about a man.
0 0 0 0Getting something that very hard to find can be considered conquering
0 0 0 0It is a fairly normal way to think I believe.
I view it that as I put my dick into her pussy that I'm taking ownership of her.1 0 0 0Its not ownership she feels like they are beneath her afterwards. ..
Maybe she has an inferiority complex.
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