Why would someone want to be degraded & belittled in bed?

[Anonymous]

I've talk to someone & they want this?
i just don't understand why though

aren't you you supposed to make the other person feel good in bed? Why would they want you to talk to them likely they're nothing?

[aj2958]

it can sexually simulate the person to try harder or feel submissive and for some people that is a huge turn on I had a girlfriend that liked it

[Asker]

I just don't understand it If someone did it to me I'd get mad.

[aj2958]

I guess it just depends on the person and personality, like for example this girl enjoyed being called "fat piggie" but everyone has their own preference

[Anonymous]

It's just their kink. Many people are into humiliation. I never got it, but...

[Anonymous]

try looking up femdom and maledom these are fetishes soooo yea...