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Why wouldn't someone want to tell you their body count if they want to have sex with you?

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  • Because they are gross slutty people with diseases and loyalty issues, so they try to make you feel like a bad person for asking, even though they have to cough up their body count and an std test when trying to get sex from any decent human being.

    • The only one with common sense on here.

    • Fortunately I'm not the only one, there is also you, and a few others, but yeah we are definitely the minority on this site.

  • They might be too embarrassed to tell you... could be too high or too low, depending on what number they think you want to hear.

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  • No girlfriend ever asked mine and I never asked theirs. I don't need to do a background check on my partners. All I need to know is if they have an STD and are on birth control.

    My wife and I never discussed "body counts". We know that we both had relationships in our lives before we met. Who cares? It's healthy and normal.

    None of my girlfriends nor my wife were virgins when we met. I would have thought it weird if they were. Virginity isn't a virtue.

    People who are worried about body counts are up tight. And I was never interested in partners with sexual inhibitions. All I cared about was that they had common sense, high self esteem and self respect, healthy values and morals, a strong libido, and engaged fully in life.

  • the main reason people don't tell is due to the possible judgement they'll face especially. promiscuous women would be seen as unsuitable partners. virgin men would be seen as having something wrong with them

    either way if they refuse to tell and there's suppose to be trust or potential trust between the both, then that in itself can be quite telling as if they have something to hide and be ashamed about

    • Men don't want to tell women how many women they slept with.

    • men don't get asked that question often. but it could be because he's a virgin and virgin men are frowned upon or he has a triple digit body count and can't say it without it coming off as arrogant or bragging

    • They probably don't want to tell you because they are selfish and only end it for the wrong reasons. You know men only be wanting sex from women.

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  • Because it is too promiscuous and they fear being rejected or thought less of.

  • If I want a relationship then maybe my body count becomes relevant. If it's just sex, I don't have to talk about anything.

  • It's noone else's business.

    • It's my business if you want to sleep with me instead of being selfish that's how STDs spread.

  • I would have no issue with doing it cause it is only 3. I'm only 18 by the way. But it is personal and our pasts are our pasts.

  • What does a body count means?

    • How many people you slept with.

    • Now i see why all these trending reels on facebook and other social media platforms always asking what's your body count... Well in my case, my body count is only one 🤣🤣

  • I feel body count don’t matter and no one should know your body count it all in the past. They might ask just to see if your well experienced or not experienced in having sex. They also might not tell you theirs for the same reason and it might make you think it’s too high and make you not have sex with them.

  • Because it doesn't matter

  • insecurity of low or high!

  • Not their business

    • People who say it's none of your business are selfish people who can't be trusted if you can't tell someone your body count your not relationship material and that goes for both men and women.

    • Sorry for your loss

    • Yeah which you're an idiot how would you feel if your wife had a high body count and didn't tell you?

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  • I don’t ask my partners that question and I don’t answer it if asked. Our respective sexual pasts are not each other’s business. Not only is it not your business but you have no possible way of knowing if the answer you get is even the truth. That’s why you both get tested when you start a new relationship and you judge them carefully by their actions and the qualities they display within your relationship. If your relationship is what you need it to be, then why does the amount of sex that person had or didn’t have in the past matter? It doesn’t matter at all. What you have in the present matters.

    • Great answer.

  • lol. I lost count a long time ago. I have enough experience to be good.

    If I wanted to have sex with you, I'd tell you what you want to hear.

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