Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
“Margaret Atwood, the Canadian novelist, once asked a group of women at a university why they felt threatened by men. The women said they were afraid of being beaten, raped, or killed by men. She then asked a group of men why they felt threatened by women. They said they were afraid women would laugh at them.”
DISCLAIMER: Don't be a moron and read this before you read the Take,
1) My dear Misandrists and Misogynists, this Take is not for you, so kindly stop reading.
2) Yes, this Take will generalize many women, not most women. Now say it with me "MANY, NOT MOST".
3) Let's stop with the Nice Guy Shaming. K? Its become worse than slut shaming.
4) And yeah, this will be a medium to relatively long Take.
So assuming you've read the above let's get on with it. First of all lets get this straight
#1. Women can be assholes.
#2. Women can be just as vile and crude as men.
#3. Yes, women can be stupid.
#4. Any other person who objects to the above has probably never met another person in their life.
See, what I find wrong with most people today, is the fact that we complicate women so much that we build this illusion in our minds that women are some kind of puzzle to be solved.
And this is the root of all our problems. Questions like
Can men and women ever truly be just friends?
Are stupid. Why? Because they escalate simplicity into complexity. Yes, in my experence, it is possible to build rapport with women and just stay as friends. A question that you should probably be asking is this,
Can men and women, whilst being friends be sexually attracted to each other? Or better yet can men and women just be friends while being sexually attracted to each other?
Exxcellent, I assume you understand what I'm getting to. Its perfectly possible that you can be sexually attracted to the other sex. After all, that's what the opposite sex is for, where I think most people make a mistake is this.
#1. Think Love and Sex are the same thing.
Now don't get me wrong, I firmly believe that you should only be sexually intimate with the person you love, or want to be intimate with. However what this does mean is, Love and Sex are mutually exclusive. #Factz
#2. Mistake Affection And Attraction.
Whenever you hear someone go 'I've been friendzoned'. Understand this only happens because of two reasons
A. You just don't go out on a random notion and ask someone out, before asking anyone out, you've to be fairly certain that they're attracted to you and interested in being 'more' than friends, without making yourself more appealing, the chances that you'll date a friend is very slim.
B. Affection is not attraction, sure your friend might spend more time with you, sure you maybe an important person to them, but..... that simply just might mean that the connection you've established is more sibling like than anything else. I might care for you and love you in a sort of an affectionate way and this is very different from the feeling I think that translates into attraction.
Why you shouldn't be 'nice' to women.
Now if you got the basis of what I was getting to, you will probably have no trouble in understanding what I'm going to say next, Let me break it down.
#1. Many people go about saying 'you should treat women right' but then beg your pardon, what's the right way to treat a woman? Its subjective and depending on where you are and who you are with, 'right' can vary dramatically.
#2. What I think is the 'right' way to treat women, is to be as you're to yourself to them, basically not to be self conscious and insert a superiority or inferiority complex over them.
#3. I don't think I've ever heard any woman go
"I wanna grow up and be a lady"
Not in this day and age, anyway, chiefly because look at all the ridiculous unsaid rules that society enforces on women, stuff like bio-clock, pressure to have kids blah blah blah, so on and so forth.
Do you want them to live upto so many ridiculous standards and then some that they'll probably choke, it can be suffocating to live upto expectations of society, I will not deny this. But then lets use this.
Only be nice to women who are ladies.
Lol.
#4. Do not patronize, sympathize, degrade or debase women, in my opinion they just vary from simply giving them entitlement all the way down to shaming them. What I truly believe women require is empathy or anyone for that matter, ad this where all them 'Nice' guys get it wrong.
#5. If you're gonna use Chivalry as an excuse to treat women 'nice' if you're a guy, or to be treated nice if you're a woman, don't bother. The Code Of Chivalry was never made for women in the first place, it is written writ of the unspoken rules of combat and conduct towards children, elders, other men and so on and so forth. Chivalry is dying because it has become a double standard these days, who is to blame? Everybody.
Phew, thank you for reading, Ciao. #BeingNiceSucks
What Girls & Guys Said
15 22'nice' is a slick slippery word with vague meaning. I think you ought to be civil but firm with everyone. Being a little aloof and frigid also helps. People take you a little more seriously.
Don't be too nice to people you barely know.
Society puts females on a pedestal from birth. Girls are made of sugar and spice and everything nice. Then high expectations to live by which is almost dehumanizing. We then give them the power and criticize how they handle it.
I'm glad you understand.
Wisely said...
Yeah, but boys are made from snips and snails and puppydog tails
That's why I treat most of them like shit they can be hanging off the edge of a building and I wouldn't give a shit unless I either one didn't know her or two thought she was a decent person or liked her. I think all of society treats women more valuibly because they are the child bearers and the ones who take care of kids and are physically weaker on average.
"My dear Misandrists and Misogynists, this Take is not for you"
oh my fucking god...
How to get chicks 101 (guaranteed sloots slooting around u 24/7)
> be tall jacked athletic
> Take a big ass jar
> Collect pussies everywhere
faiiil. i know jacked dudes that get none. or are pathetically dragged around by some pussy like theyre dogs. i have a bold head and beer belly and have a bigger jar than most will ever do... .
@fiodor99 lmao how bout you drop me ur snapchat so we can share our "jar" bet mine is 69 times bigger braw, Flexin on sloots all day. Mirin? Ik u do brau
i liked the flexin part lol. well still... dogs that bark the most are the harmless ones. so i dont take you seriously chihuahua. epsecially if you need teenager internet tricks to get some... .
@fiodor99 what? Lol what teenage tricks? That's all u barking son, I'm all here for little sloots off on Snapchat. I can show u, ucan show me urs.. if you have em. Lol
i DONT use social media to get women simple as that. i don't know how you the x generation do it, i am of the oldschool bar method though. or simply through female friends. i can show you my phone catalogue and messages instead. anyway go lift some weights with your other wet and sweaty friends in the gym son... oh the straightness and testosterone of that picture lol... .
@fiodor99 what? Snapchat isn't social media bro... it's whre u share pics lmao andbyea I can get that and nah son, Just did it earlier can't over train
lol i'm too old for that shit. older than the number it says here. i hardly learnt to use the internet lol dont expect me to know apps and crap. well still... why do you use that? sending dickpicks and shit? thats pathetic lol. dont over train dem muscles dude.. it will harm your "flexin"... haha. if you are bald and ugly too i give you props though... . u might have some game... .
@fiodor99 wtf... noone use that for dick pics bro. U older than 28? And didn't u just said u were bald? Lol And nah son, I studdin hard. That's why I was comparing jars on SC baha nvm
didn't Tag me again?
Now wait for the wrath where I tag everyone but not you... lol
I'm saving tagging you for a Special Take.😜
Aww... thats cute. LOL at most people are not even reading it and coming directly to bash you
Well that's usually case, I did mention that these people are morons, in the disclaimer. Most of them will probably go back to it, read it vaguely and then not comment again because they realise their mistake. Happens all the time on G@G.
Brilliant.
Absolutely brilliant. Well written, well explained.
Thank you, good sir.
Too bad, I like nice guys.
Good for you.
This website is getting seriously dumbed down.
You lost my interest at "Exxcellent". If you put out an article proof read it first.
Yeah well. Nobody's perfect, especially not when you type this stuff on the phone. If G@G had an app for android, I'd say otherwise.
Being nice is a good thing. Like wtf we've been taught since kindergarten to be nice to each other. Have we forgot? All I know is... I am kind to everyone. And extra sweet and kind to a very beautiful girl... then BAM... I use my romeo techniques.
I think this is a great take. Also nice point about sex and love. Great point about the asking a woman out. I don't think some of them get it. They feel nervous round guys, yet a guy is not apparently meant to be nervous and just 'state his intentions' immediately. Sure, and then when he does that, he is labelled as being too fast, thinking she is easy etc.
Sigh. Women, you can't win with them. This might be a nice complimentary read btw: www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a26543-every-women-is-slutty-unveil-the-inner-dirty-girl-within
Aside from the titlebait, I was pleasantly surprised, jokes on those who didn't read it.
This post is aids. Worse than aids.
Assuming I posted this two minutes ago, I don't really think you've read through it bro, thanks for the opinion anyway.