Why Younger men are far above and beyond better sexual lovers then older men or men my own age

Why Younger men are far above and beyond better sexual lovers then older men or men my own age

As a middle aged woman I've been with men all over the age spectrum. When I was 21 I dated a man who was 45. I was in a 15 year marriage with a man my age and have had several boyfriends my age. I've also been with much younger men (including my current boyfriend, who is 17 years younger).

I know women experience things differently and I can't speak for all women. However, in my experience younger men are by far better sexual lovers. It's not even a competition. The younger men I've been sexually involved with have blown the men my age/older men I've been with out of the water. When I first realized this was the case I seriously thought of why that is. Younger men are less experienced so shouldn't they be worse sexual lovers? As I've contemplated this I've thought of 5 solid reasons why I think younger men are above and beyond better at sex than older men/men my age:

1.Younger men have a far better sexual stamina. Younger men have far more reliable erections and those erections last way longer Sex with a man who is always hard is freaking fantastic! Men my age/older have a harder time getting erections, and even when they do they're softer and don't last as long.
2. Men my age/older men are more critical of physical appearances and are more concerned with rigid beauty. The younger men I've been with aren't concerned with rigid beauty standards. All I have to do is take off my clothes and it'll drive them absolutely wild (not the case with the older men/men my age I've been with). This gives me far more sexual confidence
3. Dating younger men allows for the disruption of certain gender roles I find restrictive sexually. Specifically, when I'm with an older man/man my age I feel they expect me to always more passive sexually and they always be more assertive sexually. However, the younger men I've been with often love it when I'm sexually assertive in the bedroom.
4. When I'm with younger men I'm far more able to prioritize my own pleasure during sex. Men my age/older have been far more preoccupied with their own erections/sexual pleasure and not so much in providing it to me. The younger men I've been with have been far more motivated to please me. They actively work to impress me with their sexual skills/prowess/what they are able to do/what extent they can pleasure me. Furthermore, younger men are far more able to have higher levels of sexual stamina, sexual openness, and maintain longer erections. Because of this I'm far more able for more of my sexual needs to be met from younger men than from men my age/older men.

5. Younger men have better bodies. I'm sorry, but I got way more excited when I see my much younger boyfriend's bulging muscles than my ex's dad bod. Looks aren't everything, but they do add something. Maybe I'm vain, but I like a man with a nice bod. It does get me more excited about having sex

Many other women have had different experiences, but from my personal experience younger men are by far above and beyond the best sexual lovers. The younger men I've been with have been way better in bed than the older men/men my age I've been with. I also think there are may other women whose personal experiences mirror my own

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