Well, sometimes you have to do things sexually for your partner
without expecting to receive anything in return.
That's not how it works.
You have to be okay with giving her pleasure.
Sure, it's great if she naturally returns that pleasure back.
But, you're not saying "yes, I will do this" only with hopes of having the same thing back in return.
If you want her to give you hand jobs as well.
You have to openly verbalize that.
Tell her you'd like her to give you one also.
Congratulations for your marriage.Now to answer your question, some girls are not comfortable with that kind of job. It will be good to talk to her and make her understand what you want and also hear her out what she feels. You have to understand what she likes and what she dislikes when it comes to such like things. Best of luck!!
Simple by the way im being honest and true u said she a virgin so she doesn't know how to do a handjob and u should aleast talk it out and sort things out and she give u a handjob.
The way I see it is that she's been a virgin too long, and it goes against her nature.
She doesn't give a shit about you, as long as she's being serviced (she knows that that part is enjoyable).
You can expect that you'll get more sex in the next 12 months than you'll ever get during the remainder of your married life.Make the most of it for that 12 months.There's a 50% chance that she'll have almost no interest in sex within 4 years.
That is why you try before you buy.If you weren't getting fucked before marriage, then you should have been getting HJs and BJs.Now it looks like you are up shits creek.
I know a guy whose wife didn't blow.He figured that he could "train"her after marriage, that she should do it for him.20 years later, she still won't suck him off.Boy does he regret that one!!!
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Maybe she scared she won't do it right. Ask her why she won't.. she's your wife, you two should be able to sit down and talk about things like this.
okay, first of all, congratulations, I wish u a world of happiness! x secondly, to answer ur question, some girls just aren't comfortable doing that kinda of thing. plus if she just lost her virginity chance r she's never done that before either...
that's not fair...you finger her...she should give you a hand job too...try to talk to her
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