Wife refuses to have Anal sex despite allowing all previous boyfriend's including a Black guy? How to I make her do her wifely duty?


Wife refuses to have Anal sex despite allowing all previous boyfriend's including a Black guy? How to I make her do her wifely duty?


Wife refuses to have Anal sex despite allowing all previous boyfriend's including a Black guy? How to I make her do her wifely duty?


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Most Helpful Guys

  • Pal, you have a long road to hoe before you get invited to go deep into her backdoor.
    The attitude & sales pitch currently employed would even turn a guy off to such suggestions.
    1. realize that most sexual desires are for what a guy CAN'T HAVE, as written by past prostitutes' experiences, as witnessed by those that talk sex most are getting it the least...
    2. ergo, the converse goes for her, i. e. (spoon feeding this) = she has done IT too many times and desires no more of IT
    3. most important: she harbors at least one horrible experience doing IT that she a) a memory she does NOT want to relive and b) certainly doesn't want to share due to embarrassment and also knowing your pushy sexual character, not with you... which would lead you to pushing her to do it again for your kicks
    sooooooooooo
    how to get what you want.. perhaps she might like it with you?
    a. maybe you invent a friend or have been reading up on anal experiences, perhaps in search of erotic role playing for the bedroom
    b. maybe you are trying to understand the problems and how the anal experience went bad for others and seek her discussion on them from time-time, letting it drop if it changes her mood... you don't want to kill all sexual desires, right?
    c. the goal is to have her finally open up & confess her nightmare (s), get it out of her system & out to share with you
    d. you now have the opportunity to calm, comfort, forgive (if asked), get on her side if it was unfair, and mostly promise that would never have happened if she had been with you... back then
    e. more of this confession, comfort, trust and openness over the weeks WILL lead her to thinking... one night when straight sex is on the menu, she WILL surprise you with a backdoor invitation
    f. INSURE HER EXPERIENCE WITH YOU IS FREE OF BARBS... Be Prepared with plenty of Silicon (not water based) lube ala MAXIMUS, bend her over the sink facing mirror, elbows on soft towel, breasts swinging free, warm her up gently until SHE pulls you forward and force HER to push it in deeper, not you; insure she is completely happy & in charge of every movement and wait until she begs to be shagged harder

  • Where in the world did you find that clip art? LOL

    A few questions:
    - Why is she refusing? You need to find that out.
    - What can you do to overcome the objection?
    - Are you esp well hung? Is the sheer size scary to her?
    - What does a former lover being black have to do with it?

Most Helpful Girls

  • Sex should not be a wifey duty. Any form of sex. It should be something initimate and passionate. With your attitude I am not surprised she doesn't want to perform anal sex. She may have done it in the past. But people change and sexual like's and dislikes change. Plus anal sex is not that enjoyable for a woman. Find a position you both enjoy. Treat your wife with respect. She is there for life. Anal sex is horrible. Do something else in the bedroom x

    • That might work lmao

  • "including a black guy" what's that supposed to mean? 😂

    • She let a black guy sodomise her.

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  • Stop trolling for starters.

    • Your the one trolling with your lack of advice

    • Why? Is it making you angry?

  • Chuckle snicker guffaw.

  • its not her 'wifely duty' and you might get hammered for that by girls on here. But to help you out, check this out:

  • You have to buy her some sort of jewelry with diamonds. Either a ring or a necklace.

    This might be a troll question but that has seriously worked for me in the past

    • It's *obviously* a troll question.

    • @BellePepper Yeah the black guy thing is a dead giveaway

  • I guess you aren't Alpha enough friend.

  • If it bothers you that much talk to her about it

  • If she's not doing her job properly (which is satisfing you) just force her down or cheat on her.

  • Just bend her over and shove it all in one go inside her anal

  • Trolling... so stupid

  • WTF? I don't blame her if that's your attitude. "Including a Black guy" !!! Seriously? Nothing wifely or duty-bound to include anal as part of her marriage vows. Clearly, she doesn't trust some aspect of you.

    • Honour and obey, what planet are you on mate. Your wife should not be forced to do something sexual that she doesn't want to. You wouldn't. If you heard that a ex was forceing your wife you would not like it. Your attitude socks. But your fantasy to one side and try something else. Maybe your wife should buy a strap on and give you anal sex. You will soon change your tune

    • She took those vows before God.