Any size penis will hurt you when losing your virginity and you will be sore during the first few times of sex after that. Make sure to participate in a good bit of foreplay so that you are completely turned on and wet before he penetrates you. Your cervix actually rises when aroused and accommodates the man's size. You don't have to worry about any issues with that, especially with a 7.5 inch penis. I could see some worry if he was like 10 inches or something. Depending on the girth, you may feel pain or discomfort due to stretching of your vagina. To help with pain of virginity loss, let him (or you) finger you a few times to loosen the way. There's actually a hole in the hymen to accommodate period flow. The use of tampons and fingering helps to stretch the hole. Start offwith one finger the first time and add another finger when it's comfortable to do so (may not be the first or second attempt). Continue doing such until you are stretched enough to ease the way for his penis. You don't HAVE to do this, of course. I didn't, but I will say that it hurt so much that I wish I had known back then. I did not enjoy my first sexual experience.
Aww man, I hope I enjoy mine, even if I'm a total goofball and might end up doing silly things. I have been trying the finger thing and I feel like there is progress!
That's great. Just don't go into this with too many expectations. It could leave you disappointed. Also, don't think too much. Your mind can stop you from enjoying it. You thinking can cause you to tense up, which can dry you out and tighten you up too much. That makes things harder and more frustrating. Just give it a few tries before deciding whether you like sex or not.
It really shouldn't as long as you're well lubricated and he goes slow. Also make sure to relax. The guy I lost it to was 8 inches and I felt no pain.
Hard to say because the shape and size of the female vagina is not entirely consistent across females. But general tips? Make sure you're in charge, don't let him be rough and 'dominate' you because that will certainly hurt. Make him take it slow and start off with plenty of foreplay so you're already really aroused (it loosens up and lubricates the vagina). And of course, applying lube would be a good idea, just in case. He can also wrap his fingers around his penis while he thrusts into to you to make sure it doesn't go to deep.
Communication is key! Before but also during sex. Simple commands like "slow down" and "you're going too deep" will help, provided he is willing to listen and work with you. In case it does hurt, stop. But don't break off the sex, just pause a bit and try again unless it keeps hurting.
Good luck!
Thank you very much!! Loved the sample of commands (:
You're welcome!
The "Good Luck" won me over😊
Of course not!
No worries!
It's perfectly harmless.
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(anyway , depends on the girth and if you're ready that is)
I want to enjoy it you know?
If it's your first time , I reckon you won't even when it's Bradd Pitt with Ron Jeremy's expertise at the helm.
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It could still go in like a noodle, I believe real pain comes from girth :o
Hey I just had noodles!!
And I bet it didn't even hurt right? lol but yeah girth is usually the biggest factor in terms of discomfort/pain. Although length is what hits the cervix, the guy can learn to control how deeply goes but he can't change girth.
@zorro8888 I just laughed at that image. So wrong and weird.
You could have some pain but use lubrication make it feel better :) :P
Any brands you recommend?
I would suggest Trojan brands would be your best to try
https://trojanlubricants.com You want brand with a good
reputation the way i see things,, This is what i would suggest
if i was buying lubrication for self pleasuring or foreplay
And it's safe to get some in the mouth?
If he pokes you in the eyeball... Just don't try to fence him naked after an argument...
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Got it!!
Wear goggles to be safe... www.poolmaster.com/.../...les-Assortment-Pink2.jpg
I have some of those, going to have to remember that.
Well if he just jams it in there then yes it'll hurt. Take it slow at first, get your foreplay on, and relax.
some meditation beforehand.. jaja
Couldn't hurt! But being tense means you won't be as turned on as you could be and that could lead to dryness and clenching and whatnot.
I swear meditation is magic. Wouldn't want the dryness, makes me cringe
how do you know its gonna be 7.5 inches? lol. Well its more than likely gonna be painful for ya first time anyway so id suggest asking him to take it slowly
I reckon the guy has measured himself and told her.
suppose.. Could be an exaggerated measurement which in her case might be a good thing haha
I'm psychic.. haha just playin. Actually he told me the measurement based on his hands. And my hands aren't super small compared to his, so yeah around size above^. Although in my head I was like don't all guys say their penis are big lol?
Depends
Not enough lub
Not turned on enough
How fast its happening
I don't know about crevices
Haha interesting description
@BosDev_82 yeah and I couldnt message you back o_o even after I followed But thanks for the compliment!!! 😄
Thats weird... i dont even remember what i messaged you?
If you are a virgin and the male is sexually inexperienced, there might be some discomfort at first.
I am a bit above average (eight inches), but no woman has told me to take it out because it was hurting her.
As a general rule, the bigger the better in terms of female pleasure.
Especially so when it comes to thickness.
There's only one way to find out... mwahaha
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😂😂😂 Fine
a 5 foot broom stick will hurt if its shoved in all the way... but if u only go 3 inches it woint so it depend how deep ur pussy is and hard he shoves it in.
Depends on the size of your pussy too
Honestly, no.
Probably will the first time, that is above average but the vagina does adjust, just don't let him go so deep in the beginning
Vagina size varies just as much as penis size does so it depends. Even a small guy can hurt you if he's going too hard. Best thing to do is warm up with a lot of foreplay, lube up, and go slow. After y'all have had sex y'all will know the limitations and can adjust (such as no lube or less foreplay or maybe he can go more hardcore).
Hoping we will eventually get to hardcore😉
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