Will a Christian woman still date me?

To start it off brief I'm a Christian guy that recently lost his virginity a few months ago but still struggle with the fear of being unwanted by a Christian woman especially a virgin one. I unwillingly lost my virginity to my very first girlfriend when I constantly told her I wanted to wait for marriage. It was my very first girlfriend and if I'm being honest one of the few interactions I've had with women so I was very inexperienced on how they are. I was unknowingly sexually coerced and pressured into sex since I was very naive with women. I always felt pressured around her and she manipulated me by blaming me for not wanting to have sex and so on... It happened very quick and I did not even have the chance of building love yet. Its been about 3 months now and thank god I honestly don't remember much of what happened.
I've gotten really close to god unlike before and I'm looking forward to build on my faith with someone else. I feel the exact same as before, like I have still waited but the fear I have is automatically being marked off as a potential partner because I'm not a virgin. I'm still waiting for marriage now and I want to give myself to the special one I marry but I don't know if that's possible with my situation. To me I know it would feel like the first time again since it will be the first time WILLINGLY giving myself up to someone and I have almost 0 memory of what happened. I don't want to cause my future partner pain with jealousy, comparison, or the feeling of wasted abstinence because of me. I'm not sure if its even okay for me to even tell my future partner because it could cause them pain. I don't even know if its dumb to have this fear but I just hope that the future someone will not see me as damaged goods or feel like 2nd in line.
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  • You have nothing to worry about because I have had sex outside of marriage multiple times, I ask for forgiveness, and God he blessed me with a beautiful woman that is going to be my wife in the future (I am engaged right now). Put your faith in the Lord, and ask him through prayer; he will blessed you.

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  • I don't think I would mind a non virgin partner, while I would prefer a virgin one because I want to share the same experience, I consider that if your partner truly loves you, they shouldn't care of you are a virgin or not. Everyone makes mistakes, we aren't perfect.

  • Well i think you need to do is find a girl who is a Christian and is also very sexual.

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