Will a good man leave a woman if he sleeps with her too soon?

[Anonymous]

Is that a boy thing to leave after sex or do men really think that she is a slut if she gives up the cookie too soon?

[DeeToPlay]

Sounds like a bit of hipocrysy to me. As it's said, It takes two to tango. The sooner we rid ourselves of double standards the better off the society will be.

[bowenw]

That is something someone that played you will do. A decent guy that is into you will stay with you and not care about how quickly you had sex.

[Effably]

People are silly. It isn't about how long it takes to get inside each other's pants but how desirable you are outside of them. If all a person is to you is a sexual conquest then of course there is no incentive to really stick around.

However, you decide how to portray yourself. There is absolutely nothing stopping you from being someone sexually irrresisitible with amazing chemistry while also being the number one person to watch actual netflix with.

[AustinMan]

Caution!! The Biggest Mistake I See Women Make Early in a Relationship ↗

[DizzyDesii]

I gave it up waaaay late and he still wanted to leave when he thought he got me pregnant. You can't satisfy people these days. They immature af

[Asker]

Yeah guys will do anything to get that pootang.

[DizzyDesii]

Like he wanted us to wait til marriage. We ended up giving in after a year and a half of dating. I thought i got preggers and then he freaked out majorly after having lied saying he’d be fine becoming a dad. After that, he started being mean for no reason, finding excuses as to why we needed to break up. I tried to make it work for 2 more months. When i was ready to call it quits then he asked me to stay... only to break up with me less than two weeks later. That little bastard couldnt stand having his ego hurt. He wanted to be the one to break up with me rather than the other way around. And now he gets to go around bragging that he no longer has to be the 20 sumn year old virgin. he's trash

[Asker]

Yeah a lot of guys take us for granted and people wonder why we are labeled as whores. You can't make a man do anything he doesn't want to do. Men hold less responsibility so they dont look as bad as we do. It is usually our faults everytime a relationship fails. That is why it is better to pick a guy that likes you more than you do him.

[DizzyDesii]

And he did like me more. I loved how clingy his ass was the first 6 months. But then true colors started coming out. And man by time he got the puss a year later, he was practically done. Like he really did not wanna be a da

[Asker]

If he is giving you trouble that means that he doesn't value you as what you thought. Guys be putting on acts until the honeymoon season is over.

[DizzyDesii]

Yea i learned that one too many times. That was 2018. Im more cautious these days

[Quackthulu]

If a dude leaves you after getting in your pants he wasn’t a “good man”

[Asker]

I thought that the easier you are to be willing to open your legs the less respect any man will have for you.

[Quackthulu]

Totally depends on the guy. But if you don’t want to fuck someone, don’t fuck them. Really doesn’t get any simpler than that.

[Zealashton]

it all depends on the situation at hand. like

honestly

the process of a realtion ship should be

freind girl friend, wife / lover

if its same sex, i
it gose

friend
best friend
brother

[Dargil]

If you want to build a lasting relationship, you should slow-walk the bases. Leading with sex has no advantage for a girl.

[ColHathi]

I can only say that I wouldn't. Moreover, if he was really "good", then that's not something that would make him leave. That's ridiculous.

[ColHathi]

I mean the guy would be an asshole in my opinion then.

[Asker]

Well why is that a turn off to a lot of dudes if she does have sex too early.

[ColHathi]

I think it's because a lot of dudes think that you should only sleep with the person you're married to, or at least not too early. Otherwise you're a no good slut who's good for nothing, has no sense of morals and will probably sleep around. Something along those lines. Which is fucking ridiculous, in my opinion.

[DizzyDesii]

I think its a turnoff cause they wonder how many times you gave it up easy. If it was for one ex thats diff. But to give up quick to multiple men makes you lose your value

[ColHathi]

Beyond absurd. And it seems like a lot of women feels the same way as that type of guys 😔

[ColHathi]

@dizzydesii Yeah.

[Asker]

Either way I am not going to do it try not to put myself in the position where it could happen. Because like she said it does make you lose your value and I dont too many guys that think that she is a slut if she gives it up too soon. I get tired of looking like a dumbass so I might as well wait so I can have better results. I was hoping that that was the case to what you are saying but it doesn't work 9 times out of 10. That is just the exception to the rule.

[ColHathi]

But why go against your own beliefs just to end up with a guy that thinks that way?

[Asker]

I don't know to avoid getting taken advantage of that why I won't have a soul tie.

[DizzyDesii]

Do research to avoid being taken advantage of. With the first guy, i was 15 and didn't know much. It was easy for him to take advantage of a naive girl. With the second guy i was 23 and had more sense. Plus i chose to do it and wasn't pressured like the first time around. i just regret the second guy because of what i told you about how he changed when he thought i was preggers

[ColHathi]

I don't know if there's a definite way to identify what type a guy is, but personally I would look for someone I can be friends with primarily, and who has the same outlook on sex and relationships as I do.

[Asker]

I have no idea that is why I stopped looking because everytime I ended up being disappointed and made bad choices. The right one will come when the time is right.

[Neverhirny]

Ill stay if she promises that delicious cookie will be for me only

[Snowman666]

Nope fucked my wife after 2 hours. Married two years now

[DWornock]

He knows that if she an easy fuck with him she was an easy fuck with lots of other men.

[pizzalovershouse]

Useky guys will

[Rozaybonet69]

Is ok to fck on the 1st date if he feels like you a slut cause you gave it up to soon that makes two slut then cause nikka gave the dick up to soon too 🤷🏽‍♀️🚀😉

[DizzyDesii]

😂😂😂😂

[Valnac]

Some men are trophy hunters, one and done, quantity not quality.
The usually hang out on Tinder.

[B2281]

If he's a good man he wouldn't do that to you.

[Anonymous]

It’s not a boy or man thing. It’s a “hypocritical about sex thing”. It’s mainly a conservative leaning yet likes to party guy thing.

[Anonymous]

Its not a boy thing, its a man thing. It’s all men. If they stay it’s because they only want sex, because that is all u are to them