I am feeling really down bc im in grad school. Smart but can't pass the test to get my degree so I can't get that job and now with like 100k in debt. I am lit looking for a sugar daddy (sugar husband) to support me. I am a hard worker. I got into grad school. I would suck his dick every day. Make 5 course meals for him. Wear sexy clothes for him. Dress up for him. Let him fuck me any time of the day. Have his children. I'm a virgin too but freaky as hell. Would a guy want that? a traditional housewife or am I just a leach : (
Stop panicking, sweetie you are cluttering things up!..
See if you are good enough to get in Med school that means you are already very bright individual and have plenty brains..
A 100k in debt means the guy needs to be +1M networth, to clear that out!..
Don't ask for marriage, You will scare away most men, marriage is a legal boundation of hell for men. ask serious girlfriend level commitment, law isn't involved there.. So men feel more comfortable..
Instead an offer that will sound much better will be..
"You are looking for an attractive sugar daddy, preferably your age to clear your debt. You are willing to take some wife duty for him for 2 year's, that means be a cook in kitchen, whore in bedroom. Depending on how relationship develops you and him can decide whether to marry or not, have kids on not the offer beyond 2 years time is flexible.. "
2 yr for 100k is plenty, 50k/year which is 4k/month for a Girlfriend.. Lot of rich tech guys out there who would jump on that offer..
Once he has fallen for you madly in love in 1 Year, he will automatically propose you for marriage, because he is blind in love.. 😂🌹😂
0 1 0 0And please remove the option of 5 meals everyday.. Is hardworking Guys who don't have daddies money and are making our own fortune at our age.. DO NOT EAT 5 MEALS EVERYDAY.. Average is 2 meals sometimes 3. 😅
Thanks for the MHO @AiBot You always Got my Back, Bro 🤜🤛
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I believe if you keep trying you can pass. If you've gotten this far you can do it. Why call yourself a hard worker if you're looking for a sugar daddy? You can get a job not being a doctor and still make enough money to not feel this way. You'll pay your debt off eventually if you truly want to quit on passing the boards.
Also, you can be all those other things for your husband and have a career if that's something that makes you happy if you're a very sexual person. If you're just doing those things for him, but don't really want to, and do it to just keep a guy, that makes me sad.
You have more options than you think. Unless you just don't want to work and be as you described. If that's the case then there's always some men looking for an arrangement like this. No shame just be honest with yourself.
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Really that sounds amazing and would so be worth it until...
You get tired of it
4 of my friends did this and they ruined them for changing their minds and trying to leave.
Only 2 got away after and one went back cause she hated the 9 to 5 more then just being used and unloved.
1 met a new man and after working hard in a normal job she got her masters!
You will only find awful guys doing this but if you can handle the mental strain and manipulation and no love sex then you can try it
Just use 2 forms of birth control cause he will want you his and pregnant!
1 0 0 0You are describing the very definition of a sex toy. Of course guys want their girl pregnant. Otherwise the girl is just a living fleshlight. As surprising as it sounds, guys are not looking at girls as sex toys. They actually want them to be their wives and give them children.
@Alpha-Provider sugar babies are sex toys! She is not looking for a husband to marry but to be a paid slut who does everything he wants! These guys are not looking for wives! They have that already and want something else or they would not be paying a lot!
Apply for jobs in the specialty you went to grad school for, taking a lower position. Once you get the job, work your way into Administration, all the while, paying down your debt. Continue smart-budgeting, and thrift-spending and maintain your dignity. Save no less than 14% from each pay period - AND DON'T TOUCH IT 😁 (for emphasis, not chastisement). You'll be fine. Be well. 🌷
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3 47Move to LA. That lifestyle is normal out there.. as long as you’re not small town hot you’ll make a killing.
0 0 0 0There's just something so not right about this post. Like it sounds like a complete setup b******* f****** question. Of course some dude would totally hook up with you if you're hot and sexy and did all that s***. But he never really respect you as an equal. You just be his sugar f****** baby he sucks his dick and Cooks his dinners and he essentially pays you for it by providing you support buying you things and doing things for you. So would you be a good live in hooker, sure some guys would be all about that. But at some point if it's not about love and respect for each other it won't last.
0 0 0 1I think the real question is would you be happy turning you marriage into a job? Not sure that sounds fun and you could miss out on all the really cool stuff in a marriage. Say you keep on studying and fail can you stay back another year? In the event that fails can you use that knowledge to get another more accessible position. At a minimum I think your freedom is worth more than an extra year or even two of studying.
0 0 0 0Not really that is a big debt.. and you don't have much to offer even as a partner.. I could see a sugar daddy but not a husband.. but I am not a man and could be completely off base..
1 2 0 0It's a big debt that always worked that way. A few years back, women weren't even allowed to work. So this is the norm actually.
@Alpha-Provider Yes.. but if they weren't allowed to work why would they have a huge debt like 100k? They wouldn't.. because if they weren't going to work they wouldn't being going to school lol I don't know.. I wouldn't even be with someone working with that had that big of a debt, then not even want to work hard to pay it back.. seems like laziness and not someone I would want to get stuck with..
@anemone978 I have nothing against women going in school. Of course adapted schools that teaches you how to cook, how to take care of babies and stuff like that. That's the whole point, western societies putted women to work cause they know how much of consumers they are. Give some money to a woman and she'll spend it in no time. That's why the OP is in debt right now. That's just mother nature teaching a lesson and reminding her that her purpose in life is being a wife, not a business woman.
Some guys probably would but that is a lot of debt. Also being a trad wife is not all it's cut out to be. I've been one for 9 years and have been depressed and suicidal for the last 7 years. It's not as easy as it seems
1 1 0 0True same here.. being a housewife actually really sucks..
@Anemone978 yeah definitely does. It's one of those I love it and hate it at the same time things. I love being there for my kids and husband everyday but hate how overwhelming and isolating it can be especially when there is a lack of support from family and spouse
Yes, 100% I live in a different country, with no friends.. Its gets to be a drag when everyday is the same thing..
Man don't care about woman's money, man care only about sex so you are fine, don't worry.
0 0 0 0that depends on how loyal and committed to him you are willing to be
that means any thoughts of cheating or divorce must be out the window before he considers marrying you
0 0 0 0What do you mean you can't?
You probably mean you didn't.
How do you think your male peers are solving this problem?
Do you think they take the test again or sell their assholes to sailors?
0 1 0 0Sounds like the sort of thing I'd tolerate, as long as there were no glaring personality conflicts.
0 0 0 0How do you know you're freaky as hell if you are a virgin? What is the standard against which you compared yourself since obviously nobody told you that? Just curious.
I'm sure SOMEONE will want that. For me to pay off 100k of your student loans when you can't even get any income, you'd have to be a damned find housekeeper, cook and lay though.
0 0 0 0im just not afraid to try anything and make my partner happy. I like the idea of anal. Cum all over my face. I've deep throated guys in the past swallowing is a must. I love dick and cum everywhere. I love costumes. I role play a lot with my exes. Hand cuffs choke me that kinda stuff. I thought it was normal but all the guys I've been with say I'm freaky. I'm not a good any of these but I will try and become a good one. ahhhh. Like i said in my update. I will prob inherit 300k ish so will be able to pay off my loans at least.
That makes sense. Thanks for clearing that up. Keep yourself in shape. That'll help your chances immensely.
yess i have abs and a really nice ass. :( i can't believe im going from thinking Dr. to I will be anyone whore pls support me ahhh
No as he'll be working most of that 24/7 to feed your mooching "sexy" ass.
Also, 300k isn't much kiddo. Most put down more than that just as a deposit for a house.
0 0 0 0i know but it will pay off my debt is what i mean
Unemployment is one thing but 100k in debt. How does a person have 100k in debt?
0 0 0 0medical school tuition is expensive. you're supposed to finish and make enough to pay off thee debt. but if you dont make it, you're left... stuck : (.
Nah you radioactive
what?
So not only you are not having a job, but you're also in fucking debt with 100k. And instead of finding a job, you are ready to become a hooker. Wow, what a life of a strong and independent woman. If he is rich and he wants his dick to be polished 24/7 every time he wants it - no, he won't marry you. He will just pay you money for your services.
1 0 0 0She said she’s willing to become a “traditional housewife” so I think its more just the old fashioned practices that offend you
I'm sure a guy would want you as a live-in housekeeper, and to take care of him whenever he wants. But most guys want something more for a wife.
1 2 0 0Not true. Don't speak for "most guys" when you clearly are a minority on this planet
@Alpha-Provider I accept your criticism. You are correct, I should have said "many guys". My apology.
Yes, most guy’s would love that honestly , Most guy’s don’t go after girls’ because of her money most guy’s go after girl’s because she is beautiful to his eyes , Most guy’s don’t give a shit where she works or what car she drives , all he cares about is having a beautiful girl that looks up to him and values him and stays loyal to him , if she treats him like a King , he will treat her like his Queen , so having a girl like you from what you said you would make a guy very happy if you treated him that way. What most girls don’t realize about men is most
Men want a girl that brings happiness into his life , not misery , He doesn’t want to be with a girl that doesn’t appreciate him or makes him feel unvalued or compares him to other men , Most Guy’s that are treated like shit by their girlfriends or wives will end up leaving her or cheating on her with a girl that makes him feel valued and wanted. Most guy’s will not cheat on a girl like you described1 0 0 0Being sexy and willing to do it 24x7 could do it. 24/7 = 3 3/7 would not.
Why can't you pass the test?0 1 0 0i can't remember everything. im a bad standardized test taker :(. keep taking practice tests and doing bad. Might have to do an extra year to study for this thing but that doesn't guarantee that i pass
Hmmh. If it is a subject area where you have to to remember a lot of things don't forget rote learning. I had 3 hr exams so I developed a 3 hr memory :). Stress is bad for learning and memorizing. I think just remembering summary points on a few sheets of paper can help a lot as it becomes a game with yourself and takes away stress. Also break it down into topic areas so you build confidence.
this is an 8 hour test 320 questions :(
I’m game. DM me!!!
0 0 0 0There is something very wrong with this post. I just can’t quite put my finger on it.
1 0 0 0I would get you to pass your boards. If I can get through grad school, I can get you through this.
0 0 0 0Would you pleasure him even if you weren't feeling horny?
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