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Will he "finish" in my mouth?

This guy and I have been talking for a while now and we really like eachother and we slept together for the first time last week. And next time we sleep together, I'm sure he'll want me to perform oral which I'm fine with but I do not want him to "finish" in my mouth. And I don't know if he will or will not. With my ex, he would always tell me before he would finish. But it was easier to communicate when you've been with someone for years. How do I let him know I don't want him to finish in my mouth? What can I do?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Tell him to tell you before he cums because you don't like the taste of semen.

    Hint for girls that don't like him to finish inside. Turn your head sideways and suck /nibble/go crazy on the skin on the front of his penis just below the head like you're eating an ear of corn while you slide his skin up and down with your hand.

    You'll know when to switch from a normal BJ when his penis gets extra big and extra hard. It means he's on final approach. To me, finishing with her doing that is as good as finishing in her mouth.

  • Away from sex, just tell him that for now you'd really rather he finish on your face or you breasts or wherever you want his cum. I'd encourage you to reconsider this as having my partner swallow my cum joyfully is an extremely gratifying thing and hopefully is for her since it's my most precious gift.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Ask him to tell you when he comes, before the blowjob of course.
    if he doesn't, spit it to his face.

    • Ain't young love grand?

    • Lol you made me laugh

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  • Give him ideas of other places to put it

  • Outside the bedroom for sure and not right before or after sex. Also, I'd rethink your prohibition. It's exceptionally erotic for your partner. If there's something you really want that he's not doing, negotiate for a quid pro quo.

  • Where do you want him to finish? Tell him to do that.

  • just tell him. the only way to communicate is to communicate. so you can tell him before hand or even when you are in the middle of it. just explain that you don't like guys finishing in your mouth so he should let you know when he's about to

  • My ex wife let me do that for almost 8 yrs.. then out of the blue she didn't want me to. You definitely need to do it outside the bedroom before things get going. if this is something you have been letting him do then there will be a lot of questions. for me it was a hole in me that never was filled over the next 18 years of our marriage.

  • you can tell him to let him know when he's about to finish. He'll probably understand.

    But, it should be obvious when he's about to cum, when it stiffens further and he starts losing himself. That's when you pull out and give it a few finishing tugs with your hand.

  • Tell him. Outside of the bedroom is probably the best time.

  • Just tell him before you start the blowjob that you'd really appreciate it if he let you know before he comes, and then you can keep stroking him with your hand. But here's something about the male body you need to know. It's great for a guy to have his balls played with during a blowjob. If you're feeling his balls, and they start to draw up tight to his body you'll know he's about to come, because that's what always happens.

  • First decide where you would be happy for him to finish. then let him know before you start that you'd prefer him to finish elsewhere. If my GF before a BJ said dont finish in my mouth but you can finish on my boobs i would be happy with that

  • I think all ladies should finish by swallowing but if you dont like it tell him outside of the bedroom!

  • Just say it before you start.

  • Just outright tell him.

  • if u want to let him no this the best thing to do is do it really quick

  • He will finish in your mouth or on your face

    its not your choice woman...

    • Im not sure if you are an ass... or a troll

  • Tell him why. If he understands why you don't want it, he'll be more likely to not do it... we just want to know why you don't want it.. otherwise we think you don't like us or something

  • Why no mouth?

  • Just let him know and give him more options were he can throw his load

  • Use the words that come out of your mouth, and talk to him.

    Honestly, if you can't talk to him about such basic things, you shouldn't be putting his cock in your mouth in the first place.

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