Will I have to tell the truth to my boyfriend that I had threesome mmf? I'm afraid of sudden rejection?

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So I haven't dated this guy yet, but we talked about an open relationship that we would like to have, we are having a lot of chemistry and things in common I can't believe. But the thing is that if we do threesomes with a guy he has to be uglier than him , and damn , i think I wanna do it with him but also before I get in a relationship I'm thinking of doing it with two that would be as hot as I want , and so once I get bored of that fantasy I'll leave it and so then when I do it with my future boyfriend I'll be able to conform with less hot men , I'm conscious of my beauty and that I can get someone hotter than him because of my looks , and plus he is 1.71cm and I'm 159cm. And that bothers me now Im never with tall men bc I've always been in a relationship with someone short like him 170 and damn i don't wanna be superficial, I like a lot his personality , it's hard to find someone like him, but I wanna achieve my fantasy too , like before getting in the relationship so I don't feel so bad about it , he knows I've never have a threesome but will I have to tell him about the threesomes once we are boyfriend and girlfriend? I'm afraid of what he might think of me then

loveslongnails · Accepted Answer

"So I haven't dated this guy yet, but..." You're not dating yet. You don't owe any explanations to your "future" potential boyfriend. LOL
You want a hot MMF threesome, go get it. Do it as often as you like until you start dating him. When and IF you start dating him, remember "loose lips sink ships". It's none of his business to know about your past 3 somes if you don't want to tell him.

DaveJord · Accepted Answer

I would not tell him right away, unless he asks. If he asks I would neve lie about it. But I would do it with the him first one on one, and if things go well and I really wanted to add a third person into the mix I would introduce the idea to him and see where it goes.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Yes, the police will force you to reveal all of your secrets or you will be arrested.

slatyb · Answer

No, you don’t. Anyway, if he rejects you because of your sexual history, you are far far better off without him.

awkward_author · Answer

Are you dating exclusively or both seeing other people?

MrtoddsWildRide · Answer

Do you want to know about his past?  Leave it where it belongs, as a nice memory. One day dust it off if you think he might want to try it.

rabbitzzz · Answer

Its better if you tell him.

Wise4myage · Answer

Some things are better left unsaid.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

It would be better for you to ask him first. Honesty and full disclosure is the best policy.

Staximus · Answer

All the cocks in the world aren't going to fill the hole in your heart, but love will. Find somebody that cares about you and nevermind all the other swinging dicks