Will I still be safe if I have sex the first time and dont use a condom just birth control and pull out?

[Anonymous]

[Mars24]

If you are on the pill (or some other form of birth control) and are using it properly, I wouldn't worry about pregnancy. But it can fail, especially with poor use, so beware of that. The main worry about not using a condom in this case is the spread of STI's, so make sure your partner has been tested if they have had any sexual contact with previous partners and that they are not seeing anyone else (and that this is trustworthy information). If you are feeling unsure about any of it, it is best to just use a condom as you will be more relaxed during and after and that will make it a much better experience. So I would say just use a condom at this point.

[Asker]

he's never had sex with anyone else. We're both virgins

[AmandaYVR]

Pull out method is not a method at all actually.
Birth control is close to 100% effective if taken correctly according to the directions.
Neither of these will protect you from hidden STDs. So no. You need a condom as well.

[Anonymous]

Not as safe as a condom. I wouldn't risk it myself. "Pull out" isn't a true method of birth control like many people think. You can still very much get pregnant and it's very risky. Not only is there possible pre-cum, which can possibly get you pregnant as well, but he'd have to time it perfectly, which can be very hard in the moment sometimes. Sometimes it comes on very quickly and there's very little time lol. Not only that, but we just naturally want to orgasm inside you (physically). It feels amazing so to actually make the mental thought and physically pull out can be difficult in the moment for us.

[WindAtMyBack]

Absolutely not safe. Neither birth control nor pullout guard against STDs. It's also a very bad habit to get into. Do it right. Do it safe. Please use a condom.

Also, pull out is NOT a form of birth control. Some people say they use pull out X number of times and were OK. That's called luck, not safe. This is not something you want to depend on luck.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

You may want to still use condoms for protection against any STDs

[maceygirl]

It could be safe
But you're taking the chance that he will pull out before he cums
I took the same chance my first time and he ended up cumming inside me anyway

[Notyouraveragegirl01]

Being on birth control you'll be ok probably but you should definitely get an sti/std test after because you are at risk without a condom

[OlderAndWiser]

The withdrawal method of birth control is very unreliable and unsafe.

[leafygreen]

No you won’t be safe.

[roody]

Just wear a condom, it’s not that hard

[CapnHawk]

Don't take that chance. It's like playing Russian Roulette.

[slatyb]

Safe from what? Contraception, if used correctly, will prevent pregnancy. It will not protect you from an StD. Do you know your partner is disease-free? How do you know?

[Mickey9999]

Safe? Safe from what? Cause being condom-less isn’t going to prevent STDs and it definitely won’t prevent pregnancy. So safe, you’d be the farthest from safe that you can be!

[josephinelcajon]

No very dangerous you are both at your prime and he is leaking sperm long before he cums

[honeylover21]

sounds like that's a risk you take , if us want to be safe ask your partner to wear a condom and us be on the pill if u. want to prevent STD or pregnancy.

[honeylover21]

if he were the right a guy he wouldn't have asked for you to basically have raw sex with him especially if he has something and he gives it to u and clearly doesn't care if he has , then your the one left with you've shouldn't have done it and he would just be thinking about himself not you or if pregnancy arises or Std so it should be better playing it safer than sorry.

[richa69]

No that's not safe either use condoms or take birth control pills

[Samantha_17]

Condoms are for disease prevention - not only for birth control :)

[oncpl]

Pull out method is safe. My partner is very comfortable and satisfied as I pull out at the time of ejaculation.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Pull out method is not safe, reliable method to prevent pregnancy,

[oncpl]

@Brainsbeforebeauty I can't claim with certainty. It was our experience only.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

You could ask my 21 year old a result of the pull out method 😂 it can work sometimes but it's a more risky way with no guaranty

[oncpl]

@Brainsbeforebeauty I agree that it is more risky. Absolute and maximum care has to be observed, which I do. We don't like using condoms, so in addition to pills, pull out method is found suitable.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Oh she on pills, that's good then... I thought you meant pull out only

[oncpl]

@Brainsbeforebeauty I observe pull out method for extra care.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

That's good 👍👍

[oncpl]

@Brainsbeforebeauty Thanks for your nice reply.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

No problem

[oncpl]

@Brainsbeforebeauty Again thanks.

[Wise4myage]

Yes, that method should work just fine.

[DreamCatchcer]

You should be but make sure he doesn't have an STD.

[dudeinohio]

If you are on the pill, let him cum inside you.

[Twalli]

No safer than any other time.

[Guardian45]

No, you will NOT be safe if you have sex and dont use a condom.

First, if he has an STD, then you will get it.

Second, at your age, there is a VERY HIGH probability of getting pregnant without a condom. Mother Nature built you that way. Just ask teen moms on G@G.

[Valnac]

If you trust your birth control, sure!