Will it considered as a rape?

In my last bdsm session i suffered a lot I was completely tied blindfolded gagged and he continously fuck me for at least 30 minutes he take vibrator and use it on me I was feeling helpless and want him to stop but unable to tell him
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  • That's not rape - that's poor BDSM etiquette. You're supposed to have a safeword and a safe gesture. If you did, and were using them, and he didn't stop, then he's unsafe and you should stay away from him. If you didn't have safe words and gestures set up in advance, or you didn't use them, then that's really your responsibility. Even then, you need to talk through any scenes you do and set boundaries and expectations - you can't just rush in and do a scene without any conversation.

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  • This is why it is important to establish rules and safe words and such like beforehand.

    The guy isn't a mind reader and its absurd to expect him to be.

    How is he to know its not part of the 'scene'?

    While possibility exists that he had an idea that something was wrong and even liked it being sure of that and or proving that even if it were true seems unlikely.

Most Helpful Girls

  • If your unable to speak then you should have clearly listed your dos and don'ts. Overstepping those could be classed as rape but it would be hard to prove given it was only a vibrator

  • Congratulations on winning the Troll of the day award.

    • What's that?

    • It means that I personally do not for one moment believe a single word of this nonsense.

    • Thank you for the MHGirl.

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  • I don't think so. You need to find a way to signal like a safe word but when you're gagged. Maybe violently shaking your head three times while yelling through the gag?

  • Yes, it absolutely is.

  • Not sure, i think thats more a thing of not enough communication beforehand. If you agree to something like this you need to really make sure you are on the same page with both of your DOs and DONTs.

    If you consented to tied up, blindfolded, ... than that makes i consensual sex not rape. But to be hones your partner should have noticed your struggles so... tough case

  • all bdsm couples need to have a safe word that means stop and a gag should never be so tight it stops you uttering it... if you truly feel like you may have been raped i suggest going to the police but depending on what country you are in will depend on how seriously they take you given that you initially agreed to indulge in said act... i do know the law has just changed in the uk so bondage etc cannot be used as a defence

  • no. because you agreed to that at the beginning. why would you let them treat you like that from the start? what is driving your brain i wonder? and then call it rape? fuck sake.. why dont you tell the guy not to gag you since you know from the beginning it would make you unable to speak to him..

  • You probably need a signal as well as a safe word

  • no , normal

  • Well, it's difficult to tell, as the session had your prior consent, it's better to talk about the do's and don'ts beforehand

  • Nope.

  • I don’t believe this would be considered rape because you gave him your consent

  • Have you lost your mind fucking whore if you don't want then you should not do bdsm it's the right of master who can anything it want to you there are safe words but you choose gagged means no limit he doesn't rape you it was fully consentual

    • It's ok why you are abusing me

  • If this bdsm session, blindfold, gagges thing was something that you agreed on and he had no reason to believe you wanted him to stop then no. In the future you need to make sure you can communicate during sex or else these sort of things can happen.