Not unless that's how you define virginity. In my own opinion, virginity is an outdated and very badly defined social construct that people take too seriously nowadays. Different people have different definitions of virginity, so whether you're still a virgin or not entirely depends on how exactly you define "virgin". For instance, to some people, you are no longer a virgin if your hymen isn't intact, which would mean that if you masturbated with toys you wouldn't be considered a virgin. However, others define "virginity" as only not having had penetrative sex where a penis goes into the vagina, so anal or oral sex wouldn't count. Other people define it as any kind of actual sex, so masturbation wouldn't count, but anal, oral, gay, lesbian or regular sex would. This also means that, to some people, a virgin could be much less innocent than a non-virgin, and could actually have had many more sexual partners than the non-virgin.
In short, virginity has many, many different definitions, so whether masturbation takes away your virginity is entirely a matter of how you personally define virginity.1 0 0 0So agree with this. Preach it cipher42!
Losing ones virginity can only happen when one is penetrated by another human being.
Masturbating cannot take away your virginity, but it can break your hymen (which is a sign of virginity).
There is no need to worry though, many young women who are virgins have their hymens already broken through activities such as: masturbation (like you listed), horseback riding, etc.
So it is very common.
This is why some women bleed when losing their virginity and others do not.
If you are worried about breaking your hymen through masturbation I advise you to continue to enjoy, but just be careful.
To answer your last question:
"What can you use other than a toy?"
Be creative!
You can use a banana, cucumber, etc.0 0 0 0Ty for ba
Well, technically you are not. But if you like to yhink that you still are then you are. You're still a virgin for me because you never had sex with anyone yet. Losing your virginity can only happen when a man's penis penetrated you but clearly there is no penis involved so you are still a virgin.
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No, it will not. Your virginity is something that bonds your heart, soul, and mind to a specific person. You get one chance to give it to one guy, and that's it. Not that sex can't be meaningful. But nobody forgets their first.
However, if you choose to masturbate, those feelings of lust will intensify. They will grow stronger, having been appeased, and soon you will be forced to resist the urge to act them out, with someone who will likely not be your ideal mate.
So I urge you to exercise caution, and try to exert self control.0 0 0 0It won't take away your virginity. And you should do it more frequently than once a month. You should at least do it a couple of times a week. If you're worried about rupturing your hymen, you can use a vibrating egg or something.
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3 5You're a virgin up until a penis enters your vagina. masturbation does not take away your virginity. you can't lose your virginity to yourself.
0 0 0 0Only if you fuck a big great dane, or use a big Cucumber, Rampant rabbit, or any thing that penetrates more than a few inches, By the way who is going to be the lucky sod. lol
0 0 0 0You will remain a virgin until you have sex. And by the way only once a month? How bout once a day!
0 0 0 0It may stretch your hymen but I don't really know the technical definition of virgin
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0 0 0 0The guy might not believe your a virgin if you keep shoving cucumbers inside yourself. It will be like sticking his dick in a hat.
0 0 0 0well, I suppose in a technical sense it could break your hymen, which is how some people determine virginity, but I think for most virginity is really more of an abstract concept about "purity" so until you've done it with another person it's safe to consider yourself a virgin.
0 0 0 0No it won't take away anything, but you need to do it more than once a month for Christ sake!
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