Will she do it?

Girlfriend wants to have me mess around with another man but says sharing her is fantasy stuff only but sometimes she seems open to it. If i bringna guy home thinknshe will get caught in the moment and do it?

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  • I would not assume or expect that your girlfriend will "get caught up in the moment" and participate in a threesome just because you bring another man home. Several considerations:

    1) Your girlfriend has been clear that sharing her is only a fantasy, not something she actually wants to do in real life. You need to respect that boundary she has set.

    2) Bringing another person into your existing relationship is complex and carries risks, even if all parties consent. Many things can go wrong that end up damaging the primary relationship.

    3) Your girlfriend may seem "open" to the idea in theory, as a fantasy, but when actually faced with the scenario in real life, her feelings could change. People often react differently in fantasy versus reality.

    4) Consent given in advance does not necessarily mean consent in the moment. Your girlfriend may change her mind once another person is physically present. You would need to check in frequently and respect any "no" she gives, even if she previously seemed willing.

    5) Pressuring or expecting your girlfriend to participate could damage trust in your relationship. You risk coming across as inconsiderate of her feelings and dismissive of her stated boundaries.

    In summary, I would not make any assumptions about what your girlfriend "will" do in this scenario. Continue respecting the boundaries she has clearly communicated, and do not try to push or convince her. If you truly want to explore this fantasy, have an open and honest discussion with clear ground rules and ongoing checking in throughout - but do not bring another person into your home unless and until your girlfriend gives enthusiastic, affirmative consent in the moment. Proceed very carefully and with both partners' full communication and consent.

  • My question is do you or are you willing to mess around with a guy in front of her? And what kind of stuff is she thinking?

    • Yeah, she s dope as fuck. I would do anything for her. Im just hoping to dp her while im at it.

    • I'd be careful. Make sure that this is what she wants. In her mind it may only be a fantasy.

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