Will the guy having a small flaccid penis turn you off?

[Anonymous]

When flaccid I'm a mere 3 inches, is it a turn off if before foreplay you take off his pants and see a 3 inch flaccid penis? (I'm a grower and grow to around 6/6.5 And guys what's your flaccid penis size and has anyone ever cared? Or only erect penis size? PS, I understand that penis size doesn't matter that much but I want to know from an aesthetic point of view

[mlts70]

I'm only embarrassed by my two-inch flaccid penis when I'm walking around naked in a locker room or a nude beach, but I'm much less embarrassed than I used to. I mean, I'm not afraid to go to a nude beach.

Because the only thing that counts is erect size. And I know that I'm above average (slightly). I also have a lot of sexual confidence that I didn't used to have.

Unfortunately, a lot of women still seem to think they can tell how big an erection will be based on flaccid size, but they can't. (For instance, all the silly chatter about Justin Bieber and Brad Pitt and Jude Law, based on a sighting of their soft dicks). These women are probably sexually inexperienced.

Girls, there is no way to tell how big a guy is by seeing their soft size. There is hardly any correlation at all.

[ConsultantIsBack]

As long as your Weeping Willow turns into a Mighty Oak, they'll be happy
😂😂

[Asker]

I couldn't not give that mho :P

[ConsultantIsBack]

Lol thanks for mho

[iskcyrus90]

It would depend on his personality. If he's got a good personality I wouldn't care about the size. Also, I have read in Kama Sutra books that not all women require the same size. 6/6.5 inches would probably (I haven't had sex before) be too big in my case. It really depends on the female.

[Asker]

@iskcyrus90 shit, too big? Really?

[iskcyrus90]

Yeah.

[Asker]

@iskcyrus90 why do you think it's too big and do you think that you're different in terms of you prefer it to be smaller or while I get this with lots of girls?

[iskcyrus90]

I have put my finger inside myself and the farthest I can get is 4 inches. I sometimes wonder if I'm different and why you always hear women talking about how they want big penises but I don't understand how a woman can handle anything more that 4 to 6 inches; it sounds painful.

[Asker]

@iskcyrus90 one of the reasons I was happy with my 6/6.5 is because it's bigger than average but not so big it hurts but apparently I was wrong. Do you think that maybe you weren't as turned on as you could have been?

[iskcyrus90]

I have read that when a woman becomes aroused she does get deeper so it is possible that I need to be more aroused.

[Asker]

@iskcyrus90 Yeah, if you do try this can you report back? I know that sounds strange but it could be important for me to know

[iskcyrus90]

Sure. I just don't know when that would be. But, if it happens I'll let you know.

[Anonymous]

i don't care if you're 3 inches soft as long as you're not 3 inches hard. 6 inches is fine, anything under 5 i'd say is on the smaller size, but bearable if I really like the guy.

[Asker]

So 6 is good or is it meh

[Opinion Owner]

6 is fine, that's about the average in America I think. as long as you know how to use it then it shouldn't be a problem lol.

[Asker]

And how can I know what that means? How do I use it well?

[Opinion Owner]

i just mean that your know what you're doing. like you know the best positions to go deeper or whatever, you know what pleases her, etc. honestly, size doesn't matter that much as long as you can please her. personally, oral pleases me plenty fine lol

[Asker]

Im a virgin but giving oral to a girl has always been my dream, it looks like a lot of fun

[Blonde401]

It's not about size at all. It's about how you use it! I'd just be disappointed that the guy I was with wasn't hard yet tbh haha.

[Asker]

@Blonde401 fair enough :P can you give me any tips in how I can use it well?

[Blonde401]

It's all about a team effort, so it's up to asking your partner for pointers or being communicative together about what works for you both :) I'm sure you'll do great!

[Asker]

@Blonde401 so ask her what she likes then do that? Do I ask before or during?

[Blonde401]

If you're going to ask her before, when you're talking about sex or you're getting into the mood, try and get her to drop hints about what turns her on or what she likes. If she isn't forthcoming, then ask her. Say you want to try something new or you want to try something that will really turn her on. You can always ask in the moment to. You can say 'do you like that?' And usually a woman will either say 'yes!' or she'll indirectly tell you no. If she's not into it, you say 'show me how you like it' or words to that effect. Let her know you want to learn because you want to pleasure HER and it'll come out all hot and get her going :)

[Asker]

@Blonde401 Ok, thanks :D for me the hottest thing is knowing you're making the girl happy, but I'm as virgin as it's possible to be :P

[Blonde401]

You can never go wrong with asking, it's a huge turn on to know someone wants to get it right. And if you're a virgin then that's definitely how you'll get to learn more sooner. Communication is always best. Glad I could help :)

[Asker]

@Blonde401 yeah when it comes to sex even though I've never had a girlfriend or kiss anyone (I'm 16 btw) I want all the information I can get so when it comes to it (even if it's when I'm 35) then hopefully I'll be ready :D

[AmandaLynn1930]

I don't care what it looks like soft, as long as its big when its hard :)

[Asker]

@AmandaLynn1930 I thought the whole penis size thing only mattered to guys? On here girls go on about how it doesn't matter and is 6/6.5 big enough?

[AmandaLynn1930]

Size matters to SOME, not to others. Just depends on he individual...

[Asker]

@AmandaLynn1930 and I assume you're a it does matter girl?

[AmandaLynn1930]

Size queen, here...

[Asker]

@AmandaLynn1930 Is 6/6.5 inches big enough for your royal highness? :P

[AmandaLynn1930]

Hahaha!!! Umm... it might b if he knows how to use it.

[Asker]

@AmandaLynn1930 What would you consider good? And what can a guy do for you to think "wow, he really knows how to use it"?

[Dousj]

The only thing a flacid penis is good for is taking a piss. Its like going to a safari and saying the lion wasn't shit because it was asleep, wake him up and see if you dont get pounced on. Being a grower is great, they look so unsure/disappointed at first then BAM! Surprise surprise.

[Asker]

@Dousj But doesn't it lead to some "DON'T LEAVE, I PROMISE IT GETS BIGGER!" moments?

[Dousj]

Nope. If you're really worried, work yourself to a half chub before showing it. A woman can't do anything w/ a flaccid dick, she'll wait and see

[PaulAbruzzo]

Chicks don't care about a soft dick. They care about a hard one. Just get hard and fuck her like it's your last day on Earth and she'll love you.

[tenchu11]

I always figured woman liked growers more than showers because they get to see the mechanics of it getting bigger because of them. Figured it was an ego boost

[Asker]

@tench11 like a "look how hard I'm making you" kind of thing?

[tenchu11]

pretty much

[NightOwl88]

I'm also a grower, you shouldn't worry about it.
Once it's game time you'll know

[Asker]

@NightOwl88 Yeah I'm perfectly happy with my size but will a girl laugh if they see it while flaccid?

[NightOwl88]

More than likely not. My ex girlfriend never said a word about seeing mine when it was flaccid.

[Latinacaliente]

Small doesn't matter it's what a guy can do with it what's the point of having a guy with a big ass cock n can't do nothing with it?

[Asker]

@Latinacaliente can you give me tips on how to use it well?

[Latinacaliente]

It depends how openminded your partner is too.. cause sex isn't necessarly all about penetration foreplay is an awesome thing also dildos so by the time your done with her she's not even going care about a small cock.

[Asker]

Ok, but what can I do during penetration?

[Latinacaliente]

Sex talk depending it can be sweet talk if ur into the lovey dovey sex if u into rough sex talk dirty to her touching the right parts kissing not just in the mouth but whatever u can reach also not be in the same position the whole time.

[Asker]

How many positions would you say is ok? (remembering I'm am inexperienced as it's possible to be)

[Latinacaliente]

it all depends how much u or her can stand and also if u have her in a position u see she's enjoying keep her there

[Asker]

Thanks :D also I know it's asked a lot but can a girl orgasn off penetration alone or do you have to rub during penetration or just rubbing or what?

[Latinacaliente]

There's a lot of ways it can be just penetrations, rubbing, u eating her out if ur into that by the way the best way to make her cum if u like eating her out is if she rides ur face.

[Anonymous]

If you're getting naked with a girl, why on earth would you be flaccid?

[Asker]

Skinny dipping? Pre foreplay?

[mlts70]

Only someone who is not shy would say something like that. You can't be afraid and have a hardon at the same time. For shy men, it often takes more time to relax and get good blood flow to the penis.

[Asker]

@mlts70 I am pretty shy in real life but online my shyness disappears

[Opinion Owner]

@mlts70, only someone who is not shy would say something like what? I'm just confused as to why you'd be whipping your dick out prior to any kind of foreplay. Start hooking up, feel each other up, get her boobs out, THEN get naked. My guess is, you'll be VERY hard before your dick makes it's first appearance. In fact, the only time she'll see it flaccid for a while will be in the short break between when she's gotten you to blow your load and when she's gotten you up again for the next round.