Guys, Will we continue to have sex or is this a one time thing?

We both just got out of long term relationships so we are not looking for anything serious. We started flirting here and there for a bit and just recently had sex. It was purely physically and we didn't have any type of emotional connection while doing the feed. During sex, he said "You feel so good." (Not many guys are communicative so this threw me off.) It's been a bit since we have had sex and we still flirt here and there. We have normal conversations as well that don't always just lead back to sex. I don't want to just straight up ask him if this was a one time thing or if he wants to continue to have a physical relationship.
What do you think? Was it a one time thing or will he continue to have sex with me?
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I really enjoyed the sex and would like to continue to have sex with him. I just dont know if he feels the same way. I don't want to go around sleeping with a bunch of people either.
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  • Hard to say. Sounds like you are both trying to figure things out after your breakups

    • Before we had sex, we made it very clear that neither of us are looking for anything serious. We are still friends after and see each other often. We still flirt and joke around. I just don't know if he is interested in cotninuing a physical relationship.

    • Cool, that makes sense. Talk to him about the physical relationship then!

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  • I think the guy in question is the only one who can shed light on this. What would it hurt to ask him?

    • I am just trying to avoid asking him directly, but I think this is about my only option to get the answer.

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  • You got attached to a guy that just used you as an emotional sponge.

    • I did not get attached. The sex was good. I want to continue to enjoy his body with mine but I don't know if he feels the same.

    • By definition. That’s getting attached

    • Sure, physically I got attached. Sex with guys is not always good. A lot don't know what their doing. But it was good sex with him.

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  • You like each other so why wouldn't you ask him to be your official date?

    • Unless he isn't telling me how he feels, there are not any feeligns between us. it was just sex. But it was good sex and it's something I would like to continue to do. I just don't know how to approach this situation.

  • Do you have any feelings for him now after? Sounds like he isn’t eager to get back to bed based on what you said

    • No feelings. It was purely physical, but like previously said, I just want to continue to enjoy his body with mine.

    • Wondering how sex can be void of all emotions tho

    • Wondering why sex always have to have feelings attached to it? You can enoy someone phsically with no strings attached.

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  • Move on

  • More likely that its a short term thing but there's always a chance

    • I'm not looking for anything more than a continuous physical relationship with this guy. No feelings. I just don't know if it was a one time thing or if it will happen again.

  • If you want sex with him again just ask for it.

    • That is a fair response. I just don't have the balls to straight up ask

    • Guys like sex, f he wants it with you again he'll say yes if you ask. As of now you had a physical relationship, so you need to make it clear to him you want to continue it on a physical level.

  • Yes you'll definitely have sex again

    • I hope so