Will you guys answer this bizarre question for me?

[Anonymous]

Ok... this is kind of a bizarre and weird question but bear with me. Say if you and a girl of yours that you loved had a secret place. It was your guys’ favorite romantic place and only you guys knew about it. If you figured out that she brought her vibrator there and used it in that same exact spot because you were out of town and she missed you, how would you feel? Crazy question, I know, but would you think it was sweet? Romantic? Weird? She masturbated in your guys’ secret spot when you weren’t around.

[TheorionMage]

I would find it both sweet & romantic but simpler still if she wrapt herself in one of my cologne-d shirts as she pleasured herself.

Someone whom I was 'head over heels' about, several times spritzed HER perfume on my bed's pillow cases when she couldn't stay over and instinctively I'd wrap myself and 'spoon' the pillows! Morning 'wood' was guaranteed! It also assured ANY OTHER female would figure she'd marked HER territory!

Payback came when I worked the nightclub she'd frequent and I'd find where she'd parked her car.
I'm a Type II diabetic and so I have access to medical syringes. I took MY aftershave and using the syringe I could insert it past her driver-side weather-stripping and squirt a potent aerosol into her car's passenger compartment.

Fragrant scent is one of humankind's MOST insidiously under-valued senses.
A famous advertising by-line went:
"I can't seem to forget you; your 'Windsong' STAYS on my mind" <3 ;)

[JackSmy]

@hannah_ann_linge I think we need some new pronoun, for a heterosexual couple, other than "guys", maybe? You aren't a 'guy' and I understand the use of the word, because there isn't a replacement, a better one!
As to your question, in a few parts: Having a Special Place, together, is REALLY, WOW!! Her idea, and I SWEAR, I am trying to learn to be that intuitive, that empathic, and caring!!
Our special place was a little brook, in a forest, and the place we first ever made love.
If I can't be with her, and she went there, with one of her toys, or just masturbated, remembering, NO, I wouldn't be offended, in ANY way!!
When she told me, I would feel bad, like I let her down, and would have LOVED to be there, but sometimes you can't be together, all the time!

[MrOracle]

I would think it was sweet, romantic, and a bit kinky - so a win all around!

[Xitomyth]

Everyone has needs, apparently she needs it bad...

[ohshee]

Okay so let's play pretend for a minute so I go out of town you buy a vibrator you go to our secret spot to vibrate my secret spot on you I think that's hot but what would have been hotter is if I knew you bought that vibrator and I knew you were going to our secret spot to vibrate your secret spot and right is you were in the middle of vibrating your secret spot at our secret spot I walk in and catch you and I give you my secret spot which is your secret spot so now we're both at our secret spots doing each other's secret spots together LOL

[integrale77]

Nothing bizarre if a girl I am in a relationship with wants to masturbate thinking of me that's cool if it helps her by going to a place that is important to both of us then that's fine.

For girls sexual satisfaction is more complicated more happens in the head so a specific place or scenario us understandable to help with the urge.
Us men are lucky all it takes is an erection, a free hand and the urge.

[TommyMountainFigure]

You're right about one thing. It is definitely a bizarre question. My only concern would be how she got there. She doesn't drive and it is not easily accessible by public transport.

[Asker]

What if she did drive

[TommyMountainFigure]

You mean if something is secret and private only for us? Then no it wouldn't bother me.

[Asker]

If she missed you while you were away and she drove to your secret spot to masturbate so she didn’t feel so lonely anymore

[TommyMountainFigure]

It's only a problem if you make it one. I don't see it as one.

[Leavesbound]

I would find that sweet and romantic and happy that she thought of that spot for that purpose.

[TheUniqueOne96]

It sounds sweet and flattering, especially if it were someone I loved, like you mentioned.

[The_Maphio]

It'd be sweet. If she'd go to such lengths to please herself in that very spot, it probably means that it has a strong meaning for her, and that she dreams of you having sex with her as she handled her vibrator.
I'd make sure to make it extra sweet for her when I'm back home. Or extra rough if that's how she likes it.

[ThisDudeHere]

Honestly I wouldn't really think much of it. It'd consider it 'sentimental itch scratching.

[MotorcycleMan]

Of course. Bizarre questions are my favorite. :)
I think it would be hot, sweet and romantic. Even hotter if she sent me pics. Going to depend on your relationship of course and where that secret spot is. I mean if your secret spot is my mother's living room or something, things are going to be a little awkward, but I applaud your openness, creativity and spark of fun :)