Will you let your wife sleep with other man?

So my relationship with my husband is technically broke, he texts other woman, he is addicted to porn, never touch me.
so I told him that we could have an arrangement, and we can have sex and find other people, he can find other woman, and I can find other man, but my husband just freaked out. It is a good idea no?
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  • Normally I would say no, it's a terrible idea !

    But your husband is basically cheating so I applaud you for confronting him and telling him your plan !! Good for you, ignore his freaking out and let him be aware that what he's doing, including never touching you, has consequences

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  • I don’t blame your husband for freaking out because you basically just told him you wanted to cheat on him and he is clearly not okay with an open relationship

    if your that unhappy about what is happening then you need to sit down and have a serious conversation with him and tell him how you feel let him know how you hate when he doesn’t touch or you could go and buy some sexy lingerie and do a strip tease for him and see if that gets him turned on but you really need to talk to him

  • I think you both need
    to figure out what you want

    • He needs to. I know what I want, but he doesn’t. I find that all the porn that he look for is from black girls, he is obsessed with black girls, and I’m not black, I’m Hispanic. So I don’t know why he is with me, I’m sleeping in the living room and he is sleeping in our room, cause our situation is just difficult.

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  • Why are you still married to him?

  • Open relationship would never work for me. I am a jealous partner by nature and rely on trust to keep my jealousy in check.
    You said the relationship is broken, why stay in it? Is it just the physical that's broken?

    • Technically he doesn’t feel attraction for me. And I been telling him that I can go and get plastic surgery and he doesn’t want me to have plastic surgery. I’m Latina, I have black hair, I’m short, I’m slim, but he likes black girls, and well I told him why he is with me? If I’m not what he really likes

    • So why are you with him?

  • Hell no.. I'm. not letting my girl sleep. with another man.. neotherwould I cheat on her.. being trustworthy is gold

  • Children? If not, then just divorce. Maybe you should anyway.

  • if he didn't object then it would have been a great idea but if he can't see how unfair the present situation is then i can't see how you can both make it work unless you start having affairs behind his back

  • Just divorce.

  • In that scenario it's probably better to just split up, especially if you don't have kids together.

  • No, I would put in the work to reconnect and try to meet my wife’s needs.

  • So an open relationship. I'm not interested in an open relationship, so I would not have a great reaction if it were suggested, because I'd be questioning why.

  • If it will be because of the reson you say, no.
    If it will be for sun, for kinky fantazy and if we are a happy couple/family then i'm ok.

  • B. Divorce is even a better idea.

  • Good idea

  • def. not

  • My husband let’s me sleep with other guys

    • Please pm me

  • If I had one, I would want her for myself.

  • Its depends on if want that or not? Do you want that?

    • I want. But he don’t want, I don’t understand cause he is technically cheating on me, but don’t want us to have that arrangement, is selfish only he have the right to cheat on me.

    • What a stupid arrogant guy. Kick him out on your life

    • Yes he is. And I been crying all day, cause I feel like I’m not enough for anyone. This really hit me hard, the first time I get married and this happens to me

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  • Just split up then your not asking for his blessing for you to cheat on him

  • yes if she wanted to

  • I would but only in a threesome