With all the endless “breasts & butt” questions, I have to ask are there many guys left that are attracted to vulva?

I don’t mean to objectify a woman’s body parts here… But from a standpoint of natural attraction, isn’t the most defining part of womanhood the vulva? I just wonder since at nauseam there’s constantly so many endless questions and talk of anal/butt obsession and breasts on this website. I know as a man, I’m hardwired to find the female specific part capable of creation and receiving sexual stimulation (vulva/vagina) to be the most attractive, secondary only to her smile and feminine personality traits. Thoughts?

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  • I agree with you, PositiveFlight. I guess the main reason for focus on boobs and butts is because they stand out, even when she is clothed. Women's smooth skin, curves, round, bouncy butts and boobs differentiate them from men. Men love how women look and feel.

    I have to say that, when I see a nice butt on a cute woman, I think of the quintessentially feminine part that is tucked between her pillowy cheeks and thighs. I think of the way butt sloshes and jiggles during sex.

    But butts aren't that recreational. They're mainly nice to look at.
    Boobs are also nice to look at, but they are also very recreational and they have nipples. Boobs are functional and erogenous external organs.
    Men have asses but they don't have breasts, hence the fascination with boobs.

    Pussy, though, is the ultimate. I absolutely love the gap; the cleft mound; the mons veneris; camel toe; plump, pliable lips; the absence of external genitalia; and the thought of the hidden portal to the center of her core.

    The shape of her thighs forms a V or funnel shape from her broad abdomen and draws the eyes to the center. The gap of her thighs frames her pussy. Everything, including her butt crack draws the eye to her pussy.

    I think vulvas are lovely. They are adorable when bare and smooth. But some bushes are also adprabe.
    The architecture is complex, fascinating and mysterious.
    There is the clitoris, which has only one purpose - pleasure.
    The sensitive, shape-shifting inner lips are delightful.
    The introitus is remarkable. And the juicy vaginal canal is a miracle.

    So, when I notice a woman with a nice ass or impressive boobs, the I also think of her pussy as part the totality. Every part of her goes together.

    I love pussy, but when I'm having sex, I'm not focused on one part or another. I am making love to the entire woman. I'm inside her body, not just her pussy. And every part of her is erotic.

    • I love your description. Thank you. There is nothing shameful about adoration of such a beautiful aspect to womanhood and humanity as a whole. Humanity is tied to creation made possible by the body of a woman. And you brought up an important point. The clitoris is made specifically to receive pleasure. It’s beautiful.

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  • Congratulations bro! In the very short time you've been an active member here you have quickly emerged as the greatest example of a male prude GAG has likely ever seen. I've been a member here for more than five years and I've never seen anyone quite like you. You are a unicorn of sorts. You are the GOAT of male prudishness.

    Keep fighting that good fight bro. You're going to change the world, one sexually satisfied person at a time. I have no doubt you'll use that judgmental, "morally superior" nature of yours to convince everyone that anything but vanilla sex and missionary position are sinful.

    • And congratulations to you too bro. I mean mr. anon! At least I’m willing to put my username and stand behind my statements and principles. I’m seemingly a prude to you because you are one of the types who more likely than not feel entitled to treat a woman like garbage and have your way with her regardless of how she may feel. Otherwise, you wouldn’t feel so threatened to come on here and take a cheep shot while hiding behind the name anon! This most likely is all about you fulfilling your perverted ways because your head is as high on porn as a heroin addict can find needles in a 24 hour period! Is my prudish ways somehow a threat to you? Does my exposing the truth regarding how guys like you operate upset you. It must really piss you off that I at least give women an alternative view and some hope that they can actually find love and be respected when it comes to sex. I’m not the only guy on here who thinks like I do by the way. There are better men than I on here who also know how to respect and love a woman. I challenge you to do two things. First, stop thinking about yourself. Sex isn’t reenacting a porn flick. It’s truly a special gift for displaying love. I’ve never said that sex must only be missionary. I’ve never mentioned the word “sinful” nor have I ever made myself out to be morally superior! Your problem is your problem because delusions and lies hate it when truth is shined on a topic! And there’s not a thing vanilla about making intense love to a woman when you both spend the time to do it right and take each other over the edge. Secondly, if you are going to come on and insult someone or disagree, I would challenge you to stop showing up as a keyboard warrior under the name anon. Stand behind your statement and make your case as to why your argument has merit instead of just throwing out a childish insult. Thank you very much for your maturity in this matter!

    • *Cheap, not cheep

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  • The reason the parts you mentioned are objectified is because they can be seen under clothing. They are easy "targets" for wandering eyes in public. When clothes are off, no doubt eyes gravitate toward the private area between our legs.

    • That’s a good point. Never thought about that aspect of in public and taking shape through clothing. Thank you!

    • You are very welcome!

    • How right you are, BUT in all of my sexual experiences, I only asked ONE woman, (married, and her husband and I were friends) if I could look at her pussy. 'She said: 'Close the door and turn on the lights) and I looked closely at her labia, clitoris and vagina, but did not turn her over to check her butt. (my mistake)

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  • I always think this especially since I hear of so many straight men not wanting to eat pussy or thinking it looks gross. Like if a guy is really straight he should be more attracted to pussy then any other part of a woman.

    • I'm definitely attracted to vulva, but breasts and butts are on display far more in clothing than vulvas. Even in tight leggings you really only get a tease. I think that's why you see more ass or boob guy questions.

    • Oh yessss

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  • Who makes that car now?

  • Definitely into vulva, but unless you meet a girl on a nudist beach you're usually not seeing her vulva until you're already about to jump in bed. You can easily see the shape/form of a butt or breasts while a girl is still clothed.

  • I think guys are attracted to it just by observing the number of camel toes out there

    • Yeah, great point, I do hear that one too lol 😂

    • Lol that proves it. I think butts and anal sex has just come more into the mainstream now but guys will always be obsessed with pussy. Our parents probably did oral and anal and everything else it just wasn't talked about

    • I do look for camel toes when I can.

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  • If you are referring to the outer features namely the length and without her labia (both minor and majora) then yes they do vary. In fact the length and girth of the clit can vary up to the size of a baby carrots (yet not a micro-penis).

    Personally thanks to an ex-gf I have a fetish for long lips.

    • Width of her labia* Damn this phones keyboard

  • Because you usually can’t see her vulva through her clothes

    • Very true, but when I'm chatting with a girl I like, I find myself wondering about her pussy - is it shaved or hairy, what is her labia and vulva like. I can get myself all worked up and the moment of discovery (should I be lucky enough) is a real delight.

    • 😂 Nice

  • I am interested in the package, not the kit

  • The reason most questions are about breasts and butts is because they are usually visible in public, while vulva is saved for private viewing.

  • I haven't replied yet, because I'm over thinking my actual answer 😅
    Which means less xp, (as usual) and therefore less reason to be present, if you are not rewarded for contributing amazing answers. 👍

  • Yes - the vulva and labia are my favorite parts of a girls body.

  • Ok, since this can is opened, have you ever been turned on by a woman's appearance in clothing, like her ass or boobs or face, and then not so much when you see her naked? Or as you said, maybe the form looked great to you, but she's got something about her vag turns you way off? I've had that happen, and I'm certain it's happened for women when it comes to men too.

    So, to answer your question, yes, I want to like that area of her just as much as the rest of her. But obviously, if she checks the other boxes, I won't let that matter because it's not that important.

  • I'm attracted 😏

  • Well, you need to get a woman naked to see that part. So in terms of what we can see without her naked, boobs and butts are too sexualized body parts that can be observed and critiqued without her getting naked, although we can critique them better with her naked.

  • Isn't EVERY guy attracted to vulvas? I NEVER met 1 I didn't LOVE!

  • I think women as a whole are attractive. Yes, men tend to gravitate towards certain body parts but I think so do women. It is part of the attraction! Not to be crude, but in the end naturally intercourse is at the base of all of it.

  • Ok, so you don't find women's breasts and asses sexually attractive.

    Are you gay?

    • Wow! Really? Did you actually read my description of the question asked? I don’t know how you can be intellectually honest with yourself or anyone for that matter if you conclude that I am somehow “gay” after reading my description! Quite the contrary! I clearly talk about how vulva is the most defining of womanhood. That’s what I find to be the most attractive on a woman’s body. It’s anything but gay for a man to be attracted to the most feminine feature of a woman’s body! And nowhere did I say that the butt or breasts are not attractive! I am simply asking why there is such an emphasis or obsession in some cases on those parts over the vulva and vagina!

    • Your problem is that you obviously look down on people who like things different than you like. I'm not just referring to this question but also all the others you've posted here where you come off as some sort of moral authority on sexual things and think people who like different things are inferior to you. You make that very obvious and it makes you look like an asshole. That's all I'm saying.

    • Oh is that all you’re saying? Ha ha OK. Or could it be that you are triggered and butt hurt because you dislike someone who is willing to come out and give people an alternative point of view? Maybe you are bothered or threatened because someone dares to come out and challenge counterfeit sexual behaviors that have led to the decline of a lot of relationships and hurt a lot of people over the years. Because I can guarantee you right now I’ve been in this field professionally and dealing with hundreds of couples over the years who have been doing the very things that you consider to be fun sexually. I am certainly no moral authority, but neither are you! I’ve never claimed to be a moral authority and it’s a disingenuous lie for you to state otherwise! The very things you advocate as being wonderful are the very things that you should look no further than some of the most screwed up questions and relationships that appear on this site all the time as examples! I rest my case!

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  • Pardon the pun, but why are you always so butt hurt about people who enjoy heterosexual anal sex? Serious question. Are you a religious nutter or do you have some other problem? Now you've expanded your butthurtness to men who like female breasts? You okay, dude?

    By the way, I think the term you were looking for is 'ad nauseam'.