Withholding sex or a punishment?

So i know this is not a healthy thing to do or good practice. But i also know it does happen. My wife and i were hanging out with some other married friends just talking chatting. And the topic got on to sex. Again were all adults just having drinks chilling. And one of the wifes said you got a week left on your punishment so dont ask lol. The husband wasn't mad. My wife also admitted that she has punished in the past. Now we have a great marriage no issues. Has anyone heard of or done this. Im not mad at her!!! Just curious thats all.

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  • My husband does this to me on the regular, he says it my attitude but it just gives me more of an attitude with him, because I never hold out on him.
    So after a year of being apart and getting back together to see if we could work it out he still pulls this shit so I bought a dildo. Now things are much smoother for us because I don't nag so much and he doesn't need to give me attention. So win win.

    • What does he say though he flat out tells you no sex?

    • He doesn't say like nah I'm never fucking you, he just turns me down all the time. I will touch him in bed and he will say no stop touching me.. or I don't want to..

    • Got it would you say your overall immature.

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  • Yeah, totally disagree with it. If she's mad and doesn't wanna fuck you it's one thing but to intentionally not to hurt your feelings is not cool.

  • Terrible idea because it implies sex is some sort of gift from one person to the other rather than shared enjoyment

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  • Terrible terrible idea

  • Every woman I've dated/served has kept me 100% celibate and pussy free as a central tenet of our relationship, and I don't consider that punishment at all. It's for my own good.

    • What do you mea its for your own good. ?

  • The whole idea of punishment in a relationship is destructive unless it's part of some erotic roleplay.

  • I wouldn't be surprised if it was common but I wouldn't tolerate.

    • So most guys dont allow this?

    • Withholding sex as a punishment is pussy whipping.

  • Not wanting to have sex because one is angry or otherwise irritated at a partner is normal. Doing it as a designed punishment is manipulative and I would plan my exit immediately.

  • I told my girlfriend if she tries it or uses sex as a reward she will no longer be in a relationship with me, no exceptions. If we were married and she tried it, I'd file for divorce. The U. S. has no fault divorce laws.

  • All women have is sex, so they play that card to the max.

    • I know and thats fair im not complaining

    • It's not fair. Imagine if men refused to do "man" things (go to work, mow the lawn, fix things, etc, etc, etc) women would lose their fucking minds.

    • I wonder if its more where the woman controls the marriage?

  • Lame

    • Whats lame?

  • That is not correct they should speak it through none of the 2 parties should withhold sex its an very important aspect of marriage too.

  • Happy wife, happy life, right?

    • Yes lol totally and im not pist at her just curious lol. Even the friend that was in the punishment wasn't mad or anything of that nature.