Woke up this mornin and I'm naked in bed with two guys I don't even know should I assume they raped me?

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I was not raped :/ okay guys
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  • I was sexually assaulted by a girl. I was mastrubating and my neighbour, this girl caught.

    My room is at the terrace. I didn't aware of her presence. I was mastrubating at my washroom with door open. My window which was facing towards terrace was also open. She saw me and I noticed that. Stupid me, I came outside to close the window instead of bathroom door. The girl told me that I was committing a crime for mastrubating openly infront of her.

    She told me to open the door. she comes inside. I was covering myself with my hands. She started filming me. Then told me to wash myself. Then she squeezed my thing. Then I told her this is wrong. Then she squeezed it very hard and I felt like I will die. then she told me to come outside as she is going to complain to the owner of my building. I begged her. Then she said okay.

    She said she should take leave. Then I opened the door. Then she kicked me out and locked the room from inside. Then I was left naked under open sky. Then after few minutes she allowed me inside. Then I grabbed her neck angrily. She kicked my balls. And I was crying with pain. She left the place.

  • Who knows.
    It's an ethical gray zone.
    But since you are under 18 and drunk enough to not know for sure you probably where in no position to make a informed decision to have sex with them.
    As a guy a simply wouldn't get involved in that kind of situations in the first place.
    You and they both made poor decisions yesterday.
    If you don't wash but get yourself tested you can find out if they physically forced themselves into you.
    But it'll be hard to get to the exact truth about what happened yesterday.
    And I doubt that there will be a conviction.
    Either way, don't feel guilt for this please.
    Consenting or not, they didn't need to take advantage of you being drunk yesterday.
    And you shouldn't have to worry about this kind of things happening when you get something to drink.

    I don't know...
    Perhaps go easy on the booze so you don't risk experiencing things you don't want nor remember even if it's not your fault?

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  • It's sounds like that's very likely what happened. That's such a scary situation to wake up in. If they're still asleep, take pictures of them so that if you report it, you'll be able to show who they were. You should go to an emergency room right away to get checked for rape. Don't shower or wash before you go. That could destroy the evidence.

    It might be best to leave before they wake up, because you might still be in a dangerous situation. Since you don't know them, you don't know what kind of people they are. They could possibly hurt you to keep you from turning them in. Or they could try to rape you again.

    • Okay ill do that

    • Had you ever had sex before, or would this have been the first time?

    • I have had sex before why?

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  • First of all never assume. Secondly that's happened to both myself and thousands of women around the world

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  • What you did last night?
    What were you doing last night?
    Where are you now? At your place or someone else's place?
    Do you know these guys?

    If they would have raped you then they would have escaped and thrown you somewhere so that you can catch or recognize them.
    Why would they will be with you?
    . I think there is lot more to update.

    • I was at a party having fun with some friends. and i went down stairs and it looks like the same house. I don't know them

    • So how can't you remember? Were you had drugs? May be you took them to the room or they convinced you to have 3some.. As you don't remember may be its a chance it happen on everyone's will. I hope you are not hurt on face or anywhere on the body? There is no sign of any hurt..

    • I don't know :/ And I don't know :/ But why would i do that? No

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  • Where are your friends? It doesn't seem very kind to leave you if you were that drunk. Also most likely you were taken advantage of in some way. Maybe ask them to begin with.

    • I Don't know i have texted them and no reply.

    • Yikes, well I don't really know what the law says in your country and honestly I don't really know in mine but it is a tricky situation if you were very drunk. If you were capable enough to initiate yourself or they did and you were not capable of saying yes or no. Yeah not a good situation and it's likely that you were taken advantage of. Also huge shame on your friends, you never leave a friend behind.

    • My frirnd told me I pushed her and told hee to leave me the fuck alone and i was with 3 guys

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  • Either you are trolling are you are incredibly stupid. I'll be nice and assume the former.

  • Of course not. The more likely reason is your the village cumbucket.

  • Where u were last night? Where u went last night? Do u know those two guys before? Ask them to explain...

    • I was at a party. and ill wake them up

    • Anything might have happened... Ask those boys to explain. Thats the only way to know what happened...

    • I'd say the boys should now get a lawyer and keep their mouths shut. A night of drunken fun could land them in jail no matter if she pulled both their hands and insisted they all go to the bedroom.

  • You now say that you were not raped. So what did happen?

  • You can assume they were there so you would not be raped.
    Besides, if you had been sexually active that night, you would know it.

  • Congratulations on winning the Troll of the day award.

  • You got in bed with them.

  • Uh yeah assume so and get tested. If there’s been any form of sexual contact, it could well be statutory Rape or sexual assault.

  • Let this be a lesson to all the young men out there.

    Stupid girls will always assume the worst about you. They put themselves in bad positions and then blame you for whatever happens, or anything that MIGHT have happened, even if you were a perfect gentleman, that's no guarantee.

    As for you, Honey. You should quit being a fucking drunk slut, then you wouldn't have to worry about whether the random strangers you wake up in bed with raped you or not.

    • Im not a slut :/

    • Don't you exclusively blame the girl. There were three people in that bed. F'ing double standard.

    • @AmandaYVR It is exclusively her fault that she got drunk and passed out in a bed with total strangers. Nobody else did that to her, she did that to herself.

  • 1) you're a minor, depending on how young you are and age of consent where you live they may have raped you as you're not legally old enough to consent.
    2) if you were high on drink/drugs, they may have raped you as you may not have been capable of giving informed consent due to diminished responsibility.

  • did you drink last night?

    • Yes i did

    • In the lows say that if you are not conscient (even drunk) it meen they are rapeing you, even if you say yes in that time, because you are not conscient any more and don't know what are you doing. But i belive if you don't now when to stop drinking and go so far, deal whit it and enjoy the unknow sex that you haved. Try to belive it whas a very good want and start feeling bad for no participating.

  • There are too many missing variables to jump to any conclusions. Were you under the influence any known recreational drug or massive amounts of alcohol that you can recall, do you remember any details leading up to ur current situation.

    • I was drinking but I don't remember drink too much. Last time i remember is i was dancing and kissing a boy

    • Well aside from figuring out who these two individuals are the next step should be to go to the hospital and get checked to see if there's any residual narcotics in your system

    • Granted even if narcotics are not found in your system most likely if they are it would be the date rape drug it's really hard to say whether it was rape or not there's always the possibility that you got really intoxicated it's happened to me one minute I was sober the next I don't remember anything

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  • Hell no.

    • Why the sad face?

  • I don't think hardly any rapists would stay at the scene in which they raped someone after they're done raping them. Were you drinking or doing drugs the night prior? That may explain it.

    • They recorded the whole thing im asking them to fuck me.

    • I see. I'm hoping it wasn't an experience you regret.

    • I do.

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  • Probably not. Guys don't generally sleep with the girls they rape , specially being two of them...

  • Sure, circumstances don't matter.
    If you invited them or even paid them, you're a female and your assuming you've been raped with no evidence is perfectly apt.
    Send these two men to jail for a decade each on no evidence.
    It's what #metoo is for. The #believeallwoman movement will condemn them and coddle and protect you. It's an industry.
    Congratulations. You are a self-declared victim.

  • Seems like you guys were playing some board game.. who knows ! Goodluck with life

  • Why do you assume rape?

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