Women aren't sexually attracted by anything innately male?

[Anonymous]

Women don't get turned on by a naked man unless she has emotional attraction to him, that emotional attraction and his personality isn't strictly gender specific. How he looks is certainly gender specific, so if you aren't really sexually attracted to his body in of itself or by his pheromones, are you really sexually attracted or aroused by anything intrinsically male?

[Anonymous]

why do you think women watch porn? because we are emotionally attracted to the porn actors? lmao
you don't make sense, we are visual creatures but our sexuality is limited by society standards
we can't just fuck every man we find attractive, most men try to get laid as much as they can and that's why we are picky and not because we are not attracted to them
I know I can have sex with practically any guy I meet but.. what's the point? I'd rather seize them and pick the one I like the most
I chose quality over quantity

[Asker]

Well the fact that lesbian porn is the most popular genre to "straight" women is telling. Your sexuality is limited biologically (not by society) because you can only get pregnant once in 9 months while men can get women pregnant every day. So you are sexually attracted to men on looks alone, and want to sleep with them, but you hold out for the best choice?

[Asker]

Womens' stimuli from porn is about their own pleasure, not attraction to men indiana.edu/.../Chivers_Seto_Blanchard_2007.pdf (scientific proof of that statement).

[Opinion Owner]

I only watch gay male porn :/ I must not be a woman then lmao and if you've often on the site you must have seen the polls of my other women asking if they watch gay male porn too e. e

[Opinion Owner]

and by "our sexuality is limited by society standards" I thought even an idiot would understand I was talking about how we are judged upon it, hence "we can't just fuck every man we find attractive" we'd be considered whores like my bff, she lost count after guy #40 and barely remembers a handful of their names lol love her 😂

[Asker]

"we can't just fuck every man we find attractive" but do you have the physical urge to do it? even if you don't do it because of some kind of dogmatic judgement

[Opinion Owner]

sure, I call it getting horny lol I see a guy I think is hot and I start picturing sex... and get home wet

[Curlybeauty17]

That's not true. Plenty of women are attracted to the physical aspects of a man. But just because a lot of women don't want to sleep with every man that they are attracted to and would rather be with someone that they have an emotional connection with does not mean that they aren't attracted to the physical appearance of a man.

[Asker]

But are they sexually attracted to them as per the heading question. "women don't want to sleep with every man that they are attracted to" then they aren't sexually attracted to them by a gender specific trait.

[Curlybeauty17]

You can be sexually attracted to a person without going through with or attempting to sleep with them. If a man looks at a woman that he finds extremely sexy and doesn't sleep with her, he's not attracted to anything feminine? Your point doesn't make much sense.

[Asker]

You were semantically ambiguous, saying "women DON'T WANT TO sleep" they do want to sleep with them then, some reason is just stopping it from happening. And no, that is not a paradox.

[Curlybeauty17]

It could just be a person's values. Like I said just because they don't go through with sleeping with someone does not mean that they aren't attracted to them. For example, say someone wanted to wait until they were married to have sex. Then they continuously keep seeing people that they are sexually attracted to and they choose not to pursue them because their values are more important to them than a quick nut with an attractive person.

[Curlybeauty17]

Attraction does not mean that you lose all self control and have to have sex with them right then and there.

[Asker]

Yes... that's what i just explained, it was just that your initial post was ambiguous.

[Curlybeauty17]

I thought I was rather clear. My apologies.

[Asker]

I was being pedantic, and you were being slightly vague.

[Curlybeauty17]

Well regardless, do you understand what I was trying to communicate?

[Asker]

Yes.

[Curlybeauty17]

Okay good.

[cross98]

porn- sometimes i get off by the friction... i guess thats by emotion. the other part is true about a nude for me. i can't speak for all females. if i were to ever get a dick pic, it'd have to be attached to someone i love, like, because them i can imagine actually doing something meaningful to it.

[Asker]

what type of porn? as a lot of girls watch lesbian porn yet erroneously claim to be straight.

[ASEXY]

I have had women make it clear to me that they are sexually attracted to me even though they had no emotional attraction/connection to me so you clearly have no idea what you are talking about...

[Nanale]

Hell yeah if I could (what I would've thought when I was single)

[Blonde401]

This is such garbage. Of course some women can't have sex without an emotional connection but plenty of us actually can. I'm one of them. And it's usually nothing to do with the guy, you just want sex and he's sexually attractive.

[LB33777]

Woman don't need an emotional connection to have sex lmfao. Surprise! They too can participate in one night stands.

[Asker]

Only when the guy comes up to her and spins some charming locutions, not because she is turned on by his looks.

[datgirl]

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[Asker]

How about a constructive argument to try say my statements are wrong. If you can't do that then it must be true to some degree

[datgirl]

You're old enough to realize that isn't true. Use your brain.

[Asker]

ooo So a picture of a naked guy gets you wet, so you are sexually aroused by a random hot male body? You want to sleep with a man based on looks alone (and you have never talked to him).

[Asker]

? That's what i thought!

[Asker]

Still waiting for an answer if the answers to the previous questions were no, then I am right.

[Adigelunar]

yeah

[Asker]

Then you can't be considered heterosexual if you aren't sexually attracted to anything gender specific of the opposite sex. So you aren't straight.

[Asker]

Seriously if you are just rolling your eyes and think I am talking bullshit, try prove it wrong! if nothing intrinsically male sexually attracts you, of-course you aren't straight!

[MissSakura]

yeah thats right

[Asker]

Then you can't be considered heterosexual if you aren't sexually attracted to anything gender specific of the opposite sex. So you aren't straight.

[Asker]

Seriously if you are just rolling your eyes and think I am talking bullshit, try prove it wrong! if nothing intrinsically male sexually attracts you, of-course you aren't straight!

[saralj]

Um... I am attracted to guys just by their bodies for sure. Like, really attracted. I don't need an emotional connection to be sexually attracted to someone, although I *prefer* to have both. :)

[Anonymous]

So what at least we still have sex with you so shut your fucking trap you whiny little b word

[Asker]

The reasons you have sex are akin to prostitution so shut your fucking trap prostitute.

[Asker]

And you can't be considered heterosexual if you aren't sexually attracted to anything gender specific of the opposite sex. So you aren't straight.

[Opinion Owner]

Excuse me, you DON'T know my life!

[Opinion Owner]

Oh and I would have sex for love not material benefits. How is that prostitutioin? So go home and sit in a corner for a time out sesh. Effin bitch.

[Asker]

love isn't sexual attraction, or anything gender specific, you still aren't straight. And look up the definition of whore, sex doesn't always need to be traded for money, it can be using sex for any advantage really.

[Opinion Owner]

But I wouldn't do it to benefit myself. I would do it because I love the other person.

[Asker]

You still aren't heterosexual, and you probably masturbate to lesbian porn.

[Anonymous]

they are attracted to hot men and hot male bodies they usually though aren't attracted exacty like most men.