Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health I've only ever been with my boyfriend so I can't compare it to anything else. But we've been together for almost 4 years and I've always been told that I have to do the work.
As in, I have to initiate, I have to dress up, I give him blowjobs, I have to seduce, I have to fuck him even if I'm not wet. What does he do? Play games on his phone and I'm suppose to be turned on by that.
I told him multiple times that I want him to make some effort as well. He always responds with it's not the guys' job, guys don't do stuff like that. It's up to the girl.
But that can't be true can it? I'm growing more and more resentful everyday. I don't enjoy sex, I actually dread it. I see it as a chore that must be done so I can move on with my day.
If it matters, he's been with many girls in the past, he's had previous long term relationships, he's in his late 30's.
Tell me this isn't what sex is suppose to be like! Cause I'm dreading it //
Women do all the work during sex. Feeling resentful, help please?
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What Girls & Guys Said
12 23In reality, men do 90% of the work. This guy is just a weirdo.
Don't underestimate fucking, it takes teamwork. He should also do something that also stimulate you to want to do it. From the looks of it, he doesn't care about having sex with you, this indicates that he has lost interest in you as well and want to make you feel bad as a plan for break up.
Bring home another woman and tell him you want a 3 some. That might spark something.
Complete opposite of every relationship I've been in.
Dump him.
This is not what it's supposed to be like AT All. He need to do half the effort. It sounds like your boyfriend is a chauvinistic lazy moron who doesn't know how to please a woman.
Sex is two-way traffic. You are not a whore to always seduce and get him prepared for sex. He should have fully participated in body game.
What the fuck? It's usually men doing all the work
im thinking the same thing men always do all the work lol im missing out lol
@skeptic002 Seriously, where can I find a girl like that?
lol, in my experience men do 90% of the work
but no, that isn't what sex is supposed to be like, at all. I'd leave him and find yourself someone who treats you a lot better.
Who told you that you had to do all the work?
My boyfriend did. His opinion is that guys don't need to make any effort during sex, that's it's up to the girl to do all the work and keep things interesting.
That's total BS. You need to talk to him asap because it will end your relationship.
It's not supposed to be like that. It's a balance, both have to put in effort. It's up to him to make sure you are turned on as well