Women: do men get quiet during or after sex?

So a girl mentioned this on my last question and I gotta say it's true for me lol. I do get quiet during sex but mostly after. I am aware of this and try to still talk sexy or even just talk after the sex because I don't want to seem like that's all I'm interested in - which really isn't. I do like spending time with a woman. But I guess I get so wrapped up in what it is and distracted by her breasts and skin and everything that I do get quiet.

Do other women also notice this about men? Does your man get quiet during sex?

Women: do men get quiet during or after sex?
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  • I love listening to a man in pleasure… when I put my hands and mouth all over him… please make noise for me. Lmk how I’m doing, if it feels good? Do you want me to keep doing what I’m doing? Am I hitting the right places to take you where you want to be? My aim to please … guide me.

    • awwweee thats sounds so nice of you, bet your sweet in bed

    • @goodgirlsteven 🥰 I wanna hear it. Thanks 😊

    • @pinay_ako Come here!😈

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Most Helpful Girl

  • My man used to be like this, he had this issue cause he was so used to masterbating that his focus was like him watch porn and trying to concentrate on himself more then having sex and enjoying it.

    I let him know that he was not very vocal and it would be nice to hear him moan and even little dirty talk.

    He wasn't used to it kinda made him feel a bit insecure, eventually he just tried to focus on being with me during sex and he slowly got better at it and began to not be shy to express himself vocally moans and all. It is very nice. Huge turn on for us girls, it makes me cum every time.

    He's even starting to like sex a lot more then before.

    • What about wild dirty talk lol I don't want to cross a line or is that cool in the moment?

Most Helpful Guys

  • I'm pretty quiet during sex, although if it starts to feel really good, then I can't help but let that relief out.. I also like to dirty talk sometimes too... I do like to talk after sex though.. I feel like my mind is pretty clear..

    • Experiencing that experience sounds clear being quiet during the act 😀😅

  • I'll never understand quiet, silent sex... lol

    unless that's the point because you're sneaking

    it's like, dancing without music, sure you can... but why though...

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  • Generally speaking, yes I think men are too quiet. I would prefer more noises, and a bit of talking. Also, eye contact, laughing, being responsive to whatever happens. I'm a verbal person and I like words, and a man's voice is a big turn on for me. The auditory feedback of pleasure is also informative and helpful. I'd prefer some cleverly chosen words thrown in there, here and there, but breathing, panting, moans, are absolute necessity. I think most men undervalue the impact of this.

    I think it's partly a porn influence (where most watchers are male and they want the guy to pretty much disappear so they can imagine themselves in the scene), and all the young years of having to hide masturbating, but it must also be that men have this impression that their pleasure (and grunts and groans, etc.) are not that sexy to women. But they are, trust me. (If we chose to be with you, then we want to hear you.)

  • Mine does. He usually falls asleep if we’re fully done. If we are going for more than one creampie than he just lays back to recoup to give me more

  • I don’t know about other men, but mine doesn’t stay quiet, lol. We just talk and do whatever afterwards.

    I’ve heard that guys either stay quiet because they forced that habit on themselves masturbating as teens - they didn’t want anyone hearing them. I have also heard they don’t think it’s manly or something to that effect.

    • Yeah, I will admit that it doesn't feel very manly for me to moan lol.

  • We are both quiet during sex because of kids. But my man usually falls asleep after sex, so not quiet at all he SNORES.

  • We tend to shut up because we are overwhelmed, Most of use have to be reminded to communicate, Afterwards when the cuddle hormone kicks in we get quite again.

    • Oh my God that is fucking true😂

  • I imagine some guys are quite some aren't

  • I want to spend time with a woman, too! But are you saying you just meet up with her and go straight to fucking? No conversation whatsoever beforehand? Not judging; it just seems strange to me.

    • No, no not like that. We definitely talk first, yeah. It's just once we start sex I get to exploring her and get lost in that and become quiet lol.

    • Oh, okay.

    • Well, I would probably also be silent in reverence and awe of the beauty of a woman!

  • Sadly I'm a quiet one, I don't know if it's years of hiding masturbating or what, but if I focus on being more vocal it feels like an act, and takes concentration that either makes it harder to cum or i go soft, because it takes me so long to cum I got to focus on the pleasure to cum.

    • It feels like it takes concentration for me too! And if I moan when I cum it actually takes away the enjoyment.

  • I’m usually quite afterwards

  • my man is pretty quiet before, during and after! he huffs and puffs and grunts a lot! but dont say much except that he loves me and closes it with a kiss at the end!

  • I don’t think guys make as much noise as girls but that isn’t a measure of enjoying it. Guys generally cum whereas girls generally don’t. Cuddling at after sex is amazing, and if a guy pees he can usually get it up again!

  • Yes, men are quite but women like to talk with them

  • Haha. My fiance is quiet before, during and after sex. I barely even hear him breathing. He won't let loose and make some sort of noise.

    • Wow. I think I might be a tad bit livelier than that lol.

    • Great can’t wait man on fire

    • Wdum MrReliable12.

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  • My boyfriend usually gets quiet after sex, since it tires him out. But both before and during sex he's not quiet. He breathes heavily and moans

  • I'm never quiet during sex. Afterwards maybe probably because I'm sleeping I'm very aggressive during sex I like to let it be known what I'm doing going to do next.

    • Aw, man I totally need to learn to be like that lol.

  • I can get loud depending on intensity. I dont think noise is always a sign of pleasure but it can show he feels good and likes it.

  • For me making noise and moaning feels like expending energy as if it's work or something I need to go an extra mile for (so i get tired faster), so I'm generally very quiet before, during and after sex. It's my habit from my younger years.

  • I’ve never noticed this with my boyfriend he’s usually more vocal than me if I’m honest which I like because it turns me on more especially when he’s moaning