Women, do you compare your current man's sexual skills with your past lovers?

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I have had only him as a sexual partner
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I'm a man
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  • Even men do this. I've had women tell me how their past mates weren't very good in the sack, and I’ve talked about girls who weren't that great too. If you're good at sex and she likes it, it will generally be a surprise that will make her want to tell you how you're miles above the last guy.

    • It is not about being better or worse but it's about the idea that those men still exist in her mind

    • True point.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Bloody hell, this sounds like a competition, for most of "our" pov we don`t think about the ex`s if you are more tighter than her, bigger boobs, better ass, etc... All this "thinking" about "other people" is like friends with benefits/FB/ONS/NSA, so all that "love-love" making is like mechanical love, we might just care about the physical appearance, rather than the Whole Person!

    • It is not competition. It is the fact that past men and women exist in the people they have slept with making intimacy no longer about the new partner. So body count matters

    • Ok, i won't argue with you, but i still maintain my position! I do not care about past ex's if your attention is On Me! Simple! 🤷‍♂️

    • Even if she is happy you are not her only man?

Most Helpful Girls

  • No, lol.

    But my boyfriend has been the only person I’ve had sex with in the past 5 years.

    I compared the first couple of times that I slept with him, but it wasn’t his “sexual skills” that I compared lol. I compared my feelings and how relaxed & comfortable I felt with him in comparison to how anxious I usually felt.

  • Pretty sure I don't, guy I got is pretty damn good and I am quite happy with the skills he has and I'm certainly not as adventurous as I once was and even better he is a great father to the three boys he made with me and the daughter he adapted when he married me. That gives him a lot of ahead points.

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  • I've only had one partner. The comparing thing sounds disgusting. I couldn't handle mentally thinking about comparing two people for something that is so intimate

    • @Apple1996 you’re such a nice girl!

    • Being with the same person for so long tho I do compare him to his past self. Not in a competitive way but more like watching him evolve over time

    • @NYlatefun awh thanks 😊

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  • Women are sure comparing, a man who don't want to be compared should go for a virgin.

    Women, do you compare your current man's sexual skills with your past lovers?
    • Comparing makes a woman involve her past men in her intimacy with her man

  • Happens naturally.

    • Exactly. Unless you lose your memory

    • Do you compare sizes too?

  • Only one girl, discussed the skills or non-skills of past lovers with me, and that did enhance our sex life... I liked to hear what other men had, or DIDN"T have

  • Here's why men are terrible... We do this WHILE we are having sex with a new partner.

  • we r both virgins waiting for marriage
    we won't compare anyone with us

  • Yeah sometimes

  • I never compare people in that regard.

    • And how do you know your man is good at sex without comparing them to your past lovers? This is the argument I as a virgin heard a lot. That it is impossible to know what you like in bed if you have been only with one man.

  • I cannot be compared to anyone, i'm not in a contest and the woman that i'll make love to her will be my future wife and that's why i prefer the girl to be a virgin until marriage...

    Anyways, like i said, i'm myself, so i cannot be compared to others and she better not mention anyone other than me!

  • I'm a man.. sorry to invade your question. In my whole life... a few women have admitted of thinking of other. Which is normal.. but overall it's always been compatible

  • Impossible they won't.

    Everyone does comparsing because once you experience something especially sexually you can't unexprienced it or pretend you don't remember the past with someone you shared intimacy with.

  • Nope

  • @marish01 yes always, can't block thoughts

  • I bet they do, but they don't talk about it.

    • That is why I will sleep only woth one man. So any other man don't ruin my intimacy with him

    • I'm not saying that's it's bad that they compare, it's normal, people do that, I'm just saying that they are not vocal about it.

  • Why it needs

  • No. If it's good it's good. I want to enjoy the moment, not be thinking of someone else.

  • It's like you are quite obsessed with sex. But, can't admit it to yourself truly.. Also, maybe feel desiers to express yourself like others do.. but, like to think you are better

  • Not openly (that would be mean) but it's hard not to think about it.